I'm 5',5" last time I checked. Which is short-ish for a dude in this country. Any shoes tend to raise that an inch.
My mother is shorter than this and my father is very tall, so I figured I came out somewhere in the middle. It's an average height for a female here, which... sucks from my perspective (but at least I'm 'normal' height I guess), but on the other hand all the men on my mother's side are shorter than I am, even though they have tall fathers... so I got a bit luckier than them I guess. The thing about having a family with shorter men - you realize it's not that big a deal to them. "Short-ass" might be something you get jokingly called but that's the extent of people's interest in it. They exhaust that joke and forget it.
The shorter guys in my family didn't have a lot of interest in sports maybe because of the height thing, I don't know... instead they all became programmers and videogame designers/artists, so it never was any barrier to the career they wanted or whatever. They all had families and are happy with them. Seeing that, I don't think it's much of a concern for me. I'd like to be taller but, until we develop cyborg bodies I'm going to be 5',5".
It helps that my boyfriend is the same height as me. I didn't pick him for that reason, but it's nice not to be towered over, I admit.