And the South talks a good deal, but it comes right down to it, they're not all that "straight" themselves. about 40 years ago a friend and I went camping in Tennessee and met a slightly older guy who told us about in their little town most of the couples were members of this club where one night the guys got together, one night the women got together and on Saturday night they all got together and picked names and whoever they wound up with, the played with for the night. Me thinks they doth protest too loudly