Quote from: Soli on May 31, 2016, 04:36:29 PM
well reading this thread today is discouraging, I don't have that kind of money

plus I tan quite a bit and maybe laser won't even work, I never thought I'd want to get away from the sun
I wonder about the 5 o'clock shadow... my face hair has always been fairly less hairy than other men around, still it's impossible to shave so that there is no shadow, there is not much difference before and after I shave my upper lip, what makes the shadow is actually the darkness of the not yet out hairs.
I stopped pulling them last few weeks. Since I was pulling them, the shadow was more manageable, but...
200 hours
that's what, 25,000$?
Of the several operations that I'm likely to choose to undergo, electrolysis is the most expensive but spread over three years.
I hunted round beautician's, trying lots out saying I wanted my ears tidying or something so they didn't see me as a meal ticket. I found those used to transgendered could be very formal, so I continued looking until I found someone who I could spend hundreds of hours chatting with! A motherly lady who was a beautician on cruise liners and had stories of the world to entertain me with. We became friends and now go to shows together and meals out with other client-friends of hers. So that gets me out more and she charges me a friend's charge because we enjoy each other's company.
So put effort in at the start and be patient... And it's who you know that matters ;-)
The cost is a lot of money, time and discomfort. Leaving the beautician's looking like you've been attacked by bees makes you feel much more confident about how you look next time you enter the place! And ultimately, the results are wonderful. I'm fifty and my face feels like it did when I was a child. It was worth eveything :-)
So just start looking and wait until the stars align, then just do what you can afford and make a friend. :-) it's worth it in the end.