I'm near 6', 180 lbs, 42, 32, 42 and usually wear size 10 and 36D
I would like to be more like 165 lbs but look pretty good so am not too pressed about it. I can wear a 2 piece and that's not bad at my age.
If you look good, try to ignore the silly number between your feet. (I say that but still weigh myself every morning)