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Finally Full Time and High Stress of Doing So!

Started by michelleh, June 10, 2016, 01:33:40 AM

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michelleh

Starting from the 30th to 6th June 2016 I came out to: a.) Family b.) every coworker and boss at work I also individually revealed my story to each one c.) my political friends who are my wife friends and mine. There are now few people who don't know about me period. I promise you I am far from being perfectly passable but, I do get my ma'am s and doors opened for me occasionally. I took the approach it better to make my mistakes and get it out in the open. My anxiety would only build if I sat on the side lines. I have been told I am very courageous. Do I have an option really? I work hard to present as female as often as I can. I do correct pronouns when necessary. I had waitress call me sir after I requested her to not do it. I will keep improving myself as a women but, that road requires believing in myself. I am good enough and improving all the time. The road to success is littered with risk and mistakes. All being said I am glowing with new confidence. My bosses boss totally backs me and I backed by my coworkers. My wife's family with a very conservative mom took in stride. I am proud to be a TRANSGENDER WOMAN and very happy but, it is not always easy or cheap!😘💋

Michelle
Veteran, United States Navy
Name and Gender Marker Changed: 15 August 2016
GRS and BA surgery: June 20, 2017
Voice Therapy: July 11, 2017

Started Full Time: March 2016






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Ms Grace

Sounds like you're off to a great start. The stresses should hopefully lessen with time.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Denise

Congratulations and keep the great attitude.
1st Person out: 16-Oct-2015
Restarted Spironolactone 26-Aug-2016
Restarted Estradiol Valerate: 02-Nov-2016
Full time: 02-Mar-2017
Breast Augmentation (Schechter): 31-Oct-2017
FFS (Walton in Chicago): 25-Sep-2018
Vaginoplasty (Schechter): 13-Dec-2018









A haiku in honor of my grandmother who loved them.
The Voices are Gone
Living Life to the Fullest
I am just Denise
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EmilyMK03

Congrats!  I took a slower approach to coming out, spreading it out over the course of a few months.  I don't think I'd have the mental and emotional endurance to do it all at once like you did!
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