Hello, i am new here, i started cross dressing around 9 years old, recently i came out to my best friend, he claims to not to b interested, but we talk everyday & he has buckled my shoes & boots for me, he has zipped up my dresses for me, & rubbed my legs while i have nylons on, i don't want to ruin the friendship by advancing on him, but i guess I'm not sure how to take it, i would not b against anything happening between us, how should i handle him?

Welcome to Susan's Place. You haven't mentioned an age or what your parents are aware of but for now, I think you should just remain friends. Young love is important but there can be several people who you fall in love with before you find that special person. It's best to wait until you find a person who will commit to being with you for the rest of your life and that tends to happen after about age twenty.

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Just talk to him, tell him how you feel. Some guys need a little encouragement. What he is doing sounds sexual but maybe he doesn't see it that way. Maybe he is asexual or gay and doesn't see you in a sexual way. You won't know until you talk to him.

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