While showering this morning I realized I was quietly and joyfully singing, as I lovingly lathered soap all over my body.
This got me pondering the pleasure gained from the simple act of cleansing.
I realized that I now spent more time showering. Partly because my "beauty" regimen called for a more thorough scrubbing, but a large part was just the joy gained from showering.
This insight seemed so obvious I wondered that I had never reflected on it before.
This observation, in turn, caused me to ponder other simple acts that now were a source of pleasure. Walking, basking in all the varied sights & smells city life has to offer, and stopping to exchange pleasantries with the people I pass. Tidying up around the house, and taking pride in a clean well organized dwelling.... a home. The deep serenity that seems to come, from time to time, unannounced and without warning, filling me with a deep and satisfying emotion.
All these and more, simple joys, that, at least to me seem part and parcel of womanhood.
For all my kvetching the joys & benefits of approaching femininity, even at my age, perhaps more so because of my age, far outweigh the negatives. I have a lot to be thankful for. Gratitude....another simple gift.