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Makeup/skin/hair care: I have no idea where to start!

Started by Daisy Jane, August 04, 2016, 04:37:38 PM

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Daisy Jane

I've been on HRT for three months now, I'm out to about half of the people I know, and I'm still presenting as a guy. I'm not in a rush to move forward. I'll look more feminine at some point, but I want to start feeling out what I want to do in the future as far as make up, skin care, and hair care.

The problem is that I'm kinda used to doing things the guy way. I buy shampoo and conditioner. I couldn't tell you anything about it. I notice a lot of hair products have all sorts of terminology that I'm not familiar with. I don't know what texturizing, curl defining, etc mean.

Don't get me started on trying to understand what make up brushes I need and their specific uses.

Does anyone know where I can go for a crash course in all of this? I'm at a loss.
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Dena

Your best bet is to find a beauty supply store near you and enquire if they have somebody who can help you with makeup. Often they will be happy to help you for just the cost of what you will purchase. I was referred to one by a member of my group and for many year I was a regular customer. They will also know their skin conditioners and hair care products so they will be able to make suggestions about those products as well.
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Ella_bella

Skincare...

Well I fortunately started caring for my skin around 10 years ago (well before I was aware that I was transgender). Im really glad I did, because caring for your skin is not only beneficial from a beauty perspective, I find it is a really lovely emotional self care ritual. You dont need to go and spend big money on skincare products, although you may need to do some trial and error on what products work for you. If you go into some skin care product stores - you can usually get some demonstrations and some sample products to take home (with a hint of obligation). Here is a basic skincare regime that I began with:

Cleanse -> Tone -> Moisturise

Cleanse - Its really important to clean out your pores of dirt, excess oils and bacteria. Most days I use a gentle cleanser. My skin is fairly sensitive, so I stay away from "soaps" and anything harsh. I just use my hands and use gentle little circles. Be gentle around your eyes, the skin around the eyes is about 1/2 the thickness of your average face skin and very sensitive. Once/twice per week I **exfoliate (more on that later).

Tone - Applying toner helps to reduce the size of pores and it has a minor additional cleansing benefit as well. Its really important to use toner after exfoliating, I find it calms my skin down significantly. I simply splash some toner into my palm and pat it all over my face.

Moisturise - Moisturising for me is the most important part! Finding the right moisturiser was the hardest part. I have fairly difficult skin... so if I use the wrong moisturiser it gets very oily. When you apply moisturiser apply it in upward strokes and dont forget your neck and upper chest area.

** Exfoliating - This is a really great thing to do once or twice per week. It helps deep clean your pores and helps to clear away the dead skin cells that build up over time. Dont exfoliate around your eyes, and dont exfoliate too often!





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Aubrey1day

You might also consider checking out Pinterest. You can find so many tips and guides on there. Make up, clothing, hair, and they even have Transgender specific categories. :D

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RobynD

Youtube is great for learning. The clean, tone and moisturize plan is great.

Beginning makeup could be as simple as the above plus pencil eyeliner, BB cream for an all in one start and lip gloss. All pretty subtle stuff and forgiving of mistakes as you learn.



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