I'm 2 years and 2 months post-op, and, up until today, was yet to get my first post-op orgasm.
Orgasms came easy to me throughout my life, starting when I was too young to remember. Once I began taking Spiro, it became a bit harder (but doable, and so-o-o-o worth it...) However since my surgery, nothing. The sensation felt like it was all there, and I experienced the same arousal as always, but couldn't seemed to get it to build up to anything.
I went to see a GYN with experience with post-op women, who said there was nothing physically wrong, and a sex therapist who gave me all sorts of exercises that were somewhat fun, but didn't produce the desired result. I tried all sorts of positions, techniques and variations, and even some mail-order toys (which did nothing for me).
Sad to say, I was beginning to regret my decision to get SRS, though I really do love the shape of my lowers way better than the old equipment.
I posted here a while ago, and a couple women mentioned that Dr. McGinn routinely puts her patients on low-dose T and that it seems to work. It's taken me the better part of a year to get hold of a prescription (it is off-label and the insurance company turned down two appeals to cover it) but I was finally able to get my hands on some. I cleared the entire day so I didn't feel any time pressure (though it ended up taking about 40 minutes. TMI?)
It worked.
I had an amazing climax, every bit as good as the ones I had pre-op. It's taken a couple years, but I now know two things. First, that I CAN have post-op O's, and second, exactly what I need to make them work.
YAY!!!
