Wow!  I somehow suspect that there was a lot of hard work on top of the magic potion.

If only HRT would turn me into a gorgeous 40-something...  (I'm 62.  My therapist wanted to know what I expected from HRT, as some people really do expect miracles.  I said that I expected to be a weird old lady, which we both smiled at.  Nothing like an achievable goal...)

Weight loss definitely played a role in the process. Hugs
Mariah

Quote from: Michelle_P on August 16, 2016, 05:43:13 PM
Wow!  I somehow suspect that there was a lot of hard work on top of the magic potion.

If only HRT would turn me into a gorgeous 40-something...  (I'm 62.  My therapist wanted to know what I expected from HRT, as some people really do expect miracles.  I said that I expected to be a weird old lady, which we both smiled at.  Nothing like an achievable goal...)

I still haven't started hormones, but am waiting for my first endo appointment.  I have lost around 40Lbs in the past few months.  At a plateau right now, Grrrr. 

Funny thing, until I could admit to myself that I was not a man, I couldn't force myself to do the exercise necessary to lead a healthy life.  Now I am exercising every day, and eating a little bit better, old habits die hard.  Since my goal is to become more feminine, I have gotten the strength to do this.  Self loathing, even when hidden from oneself is a killer.

Thank you again.

Your welcome

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I still haven't started hormones, but am waiting for my first endo appointment.  I have lost around 40Lbs in the past few months.  At a plateau right now, Grrrr. 

Funny thing, until I could admit to myself that I was not a man, I couldn't force myself to do the exercise necessary to lead a healthy life.  Now I am exercising every day, and eating a little bit better, old habits die hard.  Since my goal is to become more feminine, I have gotten the strength to do this.  Self loathing, even when hidden from oneself is a killer.

Thank you again.

@Artesia when I told my therapist the same thing, she said it is very common for transgender to find themselves taking better care of themselves. I think you hit the nail on the head, you are finally free of the self hate and are wanting the best  body prob bile for your true self.

Hugs,
Kara


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Hi KaraAnne, welcome to Susan's. It is true we do take care of ourselves after compared to before. I'm in far better health now than I was before transitioning. After all, I nearly died in 2012 and was n my death bed then. I look forward to hearing more about your journey and seeing you around the forums. Good luck and Hugs
Mariah

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Quote from: KaraAnne on August 18, 2016, 10:03:15 AM
@Artesia when I told my therapist the same thing, she said it is very common for transgender to find themselves taking better care of themselves. I think you hit the nail on the head, you are finally free of the self hate and are wanting the best  body prob bile for your true self.

Hugs,
Kara


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Wow, Mariah, Thanks so much for sharing a difficult journey in such a personal way. Who knew a couple of photos could be so powerful. If I can find some old ones of me, maybe I will do the same thing, 'before' and 'after'. Especially now.

Artesia, I ignored myself for a loooooong time. I had GRS in '91, but tried to suppress it after that. Impossible.

                                                When you said     

QuoteFunny thing, until I could admit to myself that I was not a man, I couldn't force myself to do the exercise necessary to lead a healthy life.  Now I am exercising every day, and eating a little bit better, old habits die hard.  Since my goal is to become more feminine, I have gotten the strength to do this.  Self loathing, even when hidden from oneself is a killer.

I recognized me there so strongly.

During the last couple months I felt the same thing. I started HRT again, and as soon as I stuck my patch on, everything seemed better. Sure, just sticking that patch on was a large psyche, but only 7 days in and already my body is changing. Breasts, fat distribution, emotions [better!], joining a gym, better outlook, more confidence, and this is before I decide if I am going to present as female or not. I imagine soon it will be nearly impossible to ignore me as a woman, but time will tell!

Thank you both so much for sharing your insight 

Stunning Miriah.............. You look wonderful and are quite attractive. You are having no issues fitting into your female role from my perspective.

Hugs...........

KellyTG

Hi
Thank you for sharing

Alice x