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Started by nicolef, August 31, 2016, 10:05:54 PM

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nicolef

My husband Kevin and I are doing well,it will be 4 weeks on Saturday we got married.Finally said he liked transwomen more and I was the one 4 years ago today.Great thing was I did tell him that I am a pre op when we started dating.Kevin does like I am honest about this to him.The other thing is he has never forced me to have the GRS and respects my decision not to have it to this day.Knows it was my decision and he can't make me have it.Kevin treats me right just like a normal genetic woman and does see me as a woman as well.Kevin has never laid a hand on me,hit or slapped me.This tells me he was raised right not to do this to a woman and he was by his dad.His sons love me their step mom.His oldest son even has respect for transwomen and dating one now for a month now.Her name is Clarissa and is into her first year of her transition,he has been supporting her through it.He is like my husband as well,will respect and support her decision on having the GRS if she wants it or not.
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tgirlamg

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Congrats Nicole!!!!

It sounds like you are happy and that is AWESOME!!!... I'm getting married in 3 weeks to a wonderful man who I met when I was pre op... He has treated me like a lady since day one.... I will be gaining a step daughter and hope to be a cool grandma one of these days!

Onward we go!!!

Ashley :)
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

Ashley's Corner: https://www.susans.org/index.php/topic,247549.0.html 🌻
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nicolef

I am finally happy and have a husband that loves and accepts me supporting my decision not to have the GRS.My last husband I did divorce 5 years ago,he forced me to have the GRS and told him no everytime.Would not realize this was my decision,not his.
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AnxietyDisord3r

Good for you for sticking to your guns.
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Lady Sarah

I love reading wonderful news like this. Phillip treats me the same way. Of course, I would prefer GRS, but, to each their own.
started HRT: July 13, 1991
orchi: December 23, 1994
trach shave: November, 1998
married: August 16, 2015
Back surgery: October 20, 2016
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