Quote from: Rachael on January 19, 2008, 02:08:37 PM
Transsexuals see being intersexed as some holy grail... some, excuse for being female or male or whatever....
stop trying to prove things and live your life, youll be a LOT happyer when you quit asking why...
R 
I need no excuse for being who I am. Like I said in the other thread, my family mostly accepts me with no issue, and intersex wouldn't solve anything in that - or any other - regard, for me.
I live with my mother and two youngest brothers, all of which recognize me as a bonafide girl, even if they don't deny my past (neither do I). I have mother-daughter talks and shopping trips sometimes, and have bonded closer to my mother since transitioning. My brothers treat me as their sister, and never slip in name or pronoun. My father and his girlfriend are also the same. I regret nothing there.
Being intersex would not facilitate my name change, or gender change, or surgery approval, or anything. It would (to know, either way), however, put my mind at ease. Knowing the facts of my birth, of my body, besides being interesting knowledge in itself, is comforting. And can be useful in preventing medical conditions from arising from simple ignorance.
Transsexual, or intersex, does not affect my passability (well, the fact that they know or not in itself, anyway), or how others treat me - most people don't even know what intersex is, anyway. I don't pursue full stealth, because however painful and repressed my past is, it existed - I could not 'make one up'. I cannot lie (no need to take my word, this is just saying that making up a story is too hard for my personal morals).