Hi. Oh my. I'll be as honest as I can. You really should wait until those recent hair grafts mature. But if you can't, you might want to opt for an ear-to-ear coronal incision for your forehead recontouring work so that the scar is hidden in the scalp away from the recent hair grafts. That will, however, cause your hairline to recede somewhat depending on how much skin has to be removed from your forehead requiring more hair grafts to bring it back down. Actually, that wouldn't be bad because whoever did your hair grafts should have made the hairline somewhat irregular (rather than so smooth) to make it look more natural. Other than that rhinoplasty is needed to feminize your nose along with an upper lip lift. I would skip the jaw work. It's hard to tell if you need it or not, but I think it's okay as is. It doesn't look like you need a trachea shave either, but if you plan to lose weight, it might become apparent.
Have you considered other FFS surgeons besides Spiegel? I had mine done in Marbella, Spain by Facial Team. I highly recommend them. Cost less, too even with extra travel expenses.
Good luck.