Wow. I watched Blaire White's video first, and I am so furious that I am holding back enough profanity that would probably get me a mod warning. I also saw on the sidebar some of her other videos titled things that are extremely offensive to me. I didn't watch those, to spare my blood pressure.
Violet, I watched your video and gave it a thumbs up. You managed to take down her BS point by point with research backing you up. That video of hers shows nothing but ignorance, and frankly, intolerance. I'm really angry at her statement that "->-bleeped-<- is cool".
OK, sure, you have a subset of young adults on Tumblr that come up with some frankly ridiculous pronouns and throw a fit if you forget. I am still rolling my eyes over the "fae" pronouns, for one. But most of those people aren't out there pursuing transition. ALL of the people I have seen who are pursuing transition identify as male or female, with some of the non-binary community pursuing HRT as well.
For those who take it seriously, it is NOT cool. They struggle with a LOT, the same as any other trans person. They struggle with acceptance of families and peer groups, employers, financial ability, and so much else. It's not a walk in a park, and the statement that it's "cool" suggests that it's easy and it's extremely offensive to adolescents and young adults who are seeking transition. I don't know how old Blaire White is, but she appears to be not far off from that age group herself, so the complete lack of compassion is just chilling to me. The politest I can say it is that gods, she strikes me as a terrible human being, and I hope she learns this little thing called empathy.
I knew a woman in college who was EXTREMELY lucky and had gotten puberty blockers as a teen. She wasn't able to start HRT until she was 18, because this was the 90s and HRT was not started immediately at the time. But it meant that she didn't have very much time to go through puberty before starting HRT, and it made a difference. She had a very slender, feminine build, and even without HRT, I would never have guessed that she was trans if she hadn't come out in class. She also still remains the most beautiful woman I have ever met. If I hadn't been engaged myself at the time (and still trying to convince myself I was monogamous; as it turned out, poly is as intrinsic to me as my sexual orientation), I would have asked her out.