I know I don't post enough however this forum has helped me immensely with many of my problems... thank you all

You are making 2.25 posts a days which is a good rate of posting. I am the one who is crazy as I have a 14+ post a day average over a year and a half. I suspect when I first joined the site I was considered a troll  or out of control but so far nobody has attempted to ban me.  On the site there are only about a 100 user with 1,000 or more post and about 200 with 500 or more posts.

In any case, you are welcome and I am sure in the future as your problems are resolved, you will post more.