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Do I Look, or Could I Pass as, Female? 6.0

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Harley Quinn

Why yes it is... it was my Halloween costume. I actually was wearing it when they called me to come pick up my state gender change form from my Doctor's office at the VA. WONDER WOMAN!!! The ladies at the front desk love me.  ;)



Especially the fact that almost everything was made out of aluminum...



Woo that's sharp!

At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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barbie

Quote from: Harley Quinn on December 05, 2016, 09:29:44 PM
Why yes it is... it was my Halloween costume. I actually was wearing it when they called me to come pick up my state gender change form from my Doctor's office at the VA. WONDER WOMAN!!! The ladies at the front desk love me.  ;)



Especially the fact that almost everything was made out of aluminum...



Woo that's sharp!



Yes. It's great!

So, the custom is a kind of DIY.

A drawback is the background. You may ask your friends to take photos.

barbie~~
Just do it.
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I Am Jess

I'm always smiling.....It does help in passing.

Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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Annushka

Quote from: roseyfox on October 21, 2016, 07:12:51 PM
just got a new shirt :3

OMG!! I once dated a girl who looked just like you.  :o
And she was amazingly beautiful!
All you need is love and kindness!  :icon_flower:




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DaniDesu

Like, I know I don't really pass yet, but I am starting hrt in March, like 3 days before my birthday. (Fun fact: when my mom was alive, she and my dad both often said the doc and them thought I was a girl. When I came into this world, everyone was shocked I was a boy. This story has always made me feel okay when I had doubts that I am a woman inside.)

Anyway, I didn't get any replies, so let me post some pics and ask a slightly off topic question. Instead of passing, do you guys think I can make it as a beautiful woman? Do you think I am pretty? My curse is I think I am sometimes....but I hate my body so much. If I could just jump into a machine and make adjustments, I totally would, lol.    :D

PICS HERE: http://imgur.com/a/r91VC

Also, I noticed I didn't really review any of you either. Sorry, sisters! :( Let me amend that now.

Sinclair

ChristineRachel - Has the most beautiful eyes evah! I am a bit jealous to be honest. You PASS with honors.

Amanda_Combs - Is easily passable. I noticed you went with less make up and you know what is smart about that, is that less is more. Some girls plaster the makeup on, and really you only need a bit to accent the features you have. (Which are very feminine, by the way. <3) I love your tree, girl! May I come over for xmas?  ::) You PASS.

Jalynn - You are def cool. I love the wig, which fooled me cause I thought that was your natural hair. You are making me want to go blonde, honey. Wonderfully shapely eye brows. Cute kissy cheeks and a smile that wont quit and could melt the coldest winter into a blissful spring....wtf did I just write? PASS.

josie76 - I think you are here just for support, not to see if you pass, but how often do people compliment you back I wonder? Hmm. I think you have an androgynous look, which is not a bad thing. It means that as a woman, you can embrace your inner tomboy, or totally get all girly girl. You could go frilly, or throw on some jeans and a nice jacket and say, move over world. The tomboy is out. Every person can have a certain look, but has one look they just cant pull off. I think you are a chameleon in that you can rock any look and pass. PASS. P.S. You have such a natural woman's hairline, which is not common.

Jessika - Omg, you pass. Soft, loving eyes. Warm smile with shapely cheeks, that beckon a man's hands to caress. Your natural hair is just...gorgeous. I like black hair, but I am naturally a dark brown with light blonde highlights (yes my hair has blonde in it too in the sunlight and it came from my mother naturally.) Anyway, you PASS.

Eve of chaos - has the body type that screams I am woman. Slender neck, cute lil chin. Cheeks are adorable as fuuu. Your look, is it a hipster look? I think maybe its just who you are, not necessarily hipster though. Your outfit also suggests that maybe you are easy going or artistic? Do you draw or anything? Looking at your pics has made me want to ask questions about you lol. (I know I'm so weird!) You PASS, sweet plush.

SoraKat - so pretty! Are you trouble? Cause you look like fun, but at the same time, TROUBLE. :P Your eyes, nose, and brow ridge area has such a sexy shape to it. You could be the woman you want, Kat. Just embrace it. I threw ALL of my useless guy clothes once I got more girls' clothes. (I actually gave it to goodwill, not the undies tho obviously haha.) Grow your hair out and get some outfits. You'll feel even more free, I guarantee it! I'm going to give you a pass because I can see the potential within you. Just do something for a complete stranger like me. Just find yourself, and love that person. Always work on the you that you want to be. No one is perfect, but we can always raise the bar...and limbo! (Okay, I'm CUT OFF. I'm totally sober too, like what is my deal?)

shelby513 - Are you joking? You PASS. If I saw you in a store, I'd say, "Excuse me, miss?" Or you'd blend in, cause there is nothing alarmingly male about you at all. Those tats just add to it too. I love it. Your brows are sexy and your face shape suggests that when you go out, you don't even need make up on those "in a rush" days. You could go outside and I bet no one looks twice. Your nose is especially fem. Totes loves. <3 PAAAAAASSSSS.

Harley Quinn - Oh snap! Another DC fan in the mix! (I'm all about you girl. Harley, Ivy, and Selina Kyle, my favorite comics. Those girls have such chemistry for crime relationships. Not to mention I liked Batman, but over time started to develop a hardcore daddy fetish with Bats/Bruce Wayne. OMG the skin melts at the thought!  :embarrassed:) You are stunning though. Not one thing in your pictures triggers any male alarms, which is my poor way of saying, you look like a natural woman. A WONDERful WOMAN. Your costume kicks ass too! PASS.

I Am Jess - Soft chin, prominent cheek bones, pretty eyes, thin nose, and shapely lips. You. Are. Beautiful. Never forget that. That necklace is just lovely too.  ;) PASS

Annushka - I don't think you are here to be rated/reviewed by strangers, but just from your profile pic, you obviously can pull beautiful women for dates, and are very pretty. I'm going to cut this one short and say PASS.

Thanks for reading y'all. This seemed like 1,000 paragraphs long. I just wanted to spread some love and confidence around here. We all get curious and wonder if we have lost our touch, or maybe believe we have been in denial about how beautiful/pretty we look. Maybe no one says it enough. Well you know what? If you think it, and other people do too, then it has to be true. If you feel good about yourself, then that is all that matters. Confidence, smile, and positive attitude can get you further than just plain beauty and you know it. If you can rock these personality traits and be a stunner, well more power to you. Just be sure to not forget others in the world.

Take care, and please give me feedback too! Thanks guys! I get curious about myself too.

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AshleyC

I definitely think you're passing! Love the glasses.

Quote from: Eve of chaos on December 03, 2016, 05:24:41 PM
I posted a few pages back but didn't really get any replies. figured I'd try one more time with a couple more recent pics.
hopefully they show up.

looking for any tips on how to pass better. or some critical point outs of what give me away regardless if i can change it or not.

just cant tell if i pass or not.








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LShipley

Quote from: StevieC9 on July 01, 2016, 01:27:20 PM
Well, posted a pic in 5.0 but now that's closed and I forgot to actually ask if I could pass. I'm at about 6months hrt and just wondered what others opinions were.


I actually thought you were a female trolling the thread.

Natural pass!
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Jalynn

Thank you Dani. Was a very nice write up for everybody. I think you really are passable and have a young Victoria Beckham look. I never thought of blond till a friend showed me a pick that they thought would look good. Ever thought of trying blond highlights?
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I Am Jess

Quote from: DaniDesu on December 06, 2016, 01:30:27 PM
Like, I know I don't really pass yet, but I am starting hrt in March, like 3 days before my birthday.
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(Fun fact: when my mom was alive, she and my dad both often said the doc and them thought I was a girl. When I came into this world, everyone was shocked I was a boy. This story has always made me feel okay when I had doubts that I am a woman inside.)
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I Am Jess - Soft chin, prominent cheek bones, pretty eyes, thin nose, and shapely lips. You. Are. Beautiful. Never forget that. That necklace is just lovely too.  ;) PASS
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We all get curious and wonder if we have lost our touch, or maybe believe we have been in denial about how beautiful/pretty we look. Maybe no one says it enough. Well you know what? If you think it, and other people do too, then it has to be true. If you feel good about yourself, then that is all that matters. Confidence, smile, and positive attitude can get you further than just plain beauty and you know it. If you can rock these personality traits and be a stunner, well more power to you. Just be sure to not forget others in the world.
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Take care, and please give me feedback too! Thanks guys! I get curious about myself too.


Congrats on the start date for HRT.  It will be here before you know it.
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My mom and her family told me the same thing.
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Thank you for the complements.  I have not had anything done to my chin, lips or cheeks - just nature and HRT.  I did have my brow bones reduced and my eyelids fixed (I am 55 after all).  My nose got worked on but not for cosmetic purposes.  In fact when I went to my doctor to get it checked out he asked me who had done my prior nose job.  I told him, GOD.  I have been full time for a year and a half and I have no issue passing in real life. 
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What you say about "[c]onfidence, smile, and positive attitude" is so right on.  I had these from day one and even though I had only been on HRT for a couple month I went full time.  I haven't looked back since.  Passing is about so much more than looks.....
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I think that you have a fantastic base from which to start.  Grow your hair out and practice you makeup skills so that once you are on HRT you can be ready to go full time if that is what you want. 

Excellent post girl
Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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Jacqueline

Quote from: DaniDesu on December 06, 2016, 01:30:27 PM
Like, I know I don't really pass yet, but I am starting hrt in March, like 3 days before my birthday. (Fun fact: when my mom was alive, she and my dad both often said the doc and them thought I was a girl. When I came into this world, everyone was shocked I was a boy. This story has always made me feel okay when I had doubts that I am a woman inside.)

Anyway, I didn't get any replies, so let me post some pics and ask a slightly off topic question. Instead of passing, do you guys think I can make it as a beautiful woman? Do you think I am pretty? My curse is I think I am sometimes....but I hate my body so much. If I could just jump into a machine and make adjustments, I totally would, lol.    :D

Interrupting the thread to welcome DaniDesu.  I like your pictures but they are a little grainy. Looks pretty androgynous but I dont think it would take much to push you over the edge.
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Harley Quinn

Quote from: DaniDesu on December 06, 2016, 01:30:27 PM
Like, I know I don't really pass yet, but I am starting hrt in March, like 3 days before my birthday. (Fun fact: when my mom was alive, she and my dad both often said the doc and them thought I was a girl. When I came into this world, everyone was shocked I was a boy. This story has always made me feel okay when I had doubts that I am a woman inside.)

Anyway, I didn't get any replies, so let me post some pics and ask a slightly off topic question. Instead of passing, do you guys think I can make it as a beautiful woman? Do you think I am pretty? My curse is I think I am sometimes....but I hate my body so much. If I could just jump into a machine and make adjustments, I totally would, lol.    :D

PICS HERE: http://imgur.com/a/r91VC
You're going to be quite the little heart breaker. You remind me of a skater girl. I believe that you could pass easily. You shouldn't be too hard on yourself, and smile. ;) You're going to have no problem turning heads. Congratulations on your start date. It's going to be one heck of a ride for you. The only hard part will be finding your personal style.

On a side note. I love comics, cartoons, and anime. I am more of a Marvel girl. That is actually Cloak and Dagger on my arm. But as long as the characters have a good storyline, I'm in!







At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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I Am Jess

Sometimes I don't smile very big but I don't think that it necessarily affects my ability to pass.

Follow my life's adventures on Instagram - @jessieleeannmcgrath
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KristinaM

It seems Photobucket is acting stupid, so here's a link to my Google Photos album with my latest string of selfies over the last month or so.

https://goo.gl/photos/RRncEeYqDkSTcXX48

Thoughts?
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Karlie Ann

Your current situation is not your final destination.
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Amanda_Combs

Dani - Your comment towards me was exactly what I needed to hear right now.  Thank you SO much!
On your passing, though, I think you do for sure!  You definitely strike me as one of the girls that I would see and feel very envious towards.  You're very fortunate in that your face looks very feminine with your short hair; I honestly don't think that the length of your hair would ever make passing more difficult.
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Rachel_Christina

#716
Thank you Dani, it helps alot to hear comments like that, I get down quiet alot as I am not out,bar to my mother and 2 brothers, so socially and at work, I have to keep up the act. You start getting negative as you often look rough at work, and can't get cleaned up for events. :/
You will deffinitly pass, you have a short feminine face, you just need to grow that hair out girl!
I wish I had the short kind of face! :@


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josie76

Dani, that was really sweet! Thank you for your comments. I really hadn't been looking for a pass fail for myself. I'm not out in the world yet and am pre HRT. Hopefully really soon though. See my psych next week so hoping for written diagnosis and a letter for the endocrinologist. Diagnosis will make insurance coverage possible for everything else down the road.

I so wish that was my real hair!  ;) Lol. It's a wig. I just started letting my own grow out. While I do have all of mine still my front hairline is not where it used to be. I'm hoping when it grows out I can just keep the bangs to cover the hairline. I'll have to wait and see. I do like the color of that wig. My own hair is much darker brown but now with grey, how did I get so old anyway?  ::) lol.

You young lady do pass very well. With your short hair you could be seen either as a much younger male or a teen to 20s woman. Honestly I took you for around 19-20.  You have a very feminine face for your age. Congrats on that. I know I have a "Roman" shaped nose and a chin I someday want to do something with.
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Sowilo

Quote from: ChristineRachel on December 06, 2016, 11:28:27 PM
Thank you Dani, it helps alot to hear comments like that, I get down quiet alot as I am not out,bar to my mother and 2 brothers, so socially and at work, I have to keep up the act. You start getting negative as you often look rough at work, and can't get cleaned up for events. :/
You will deffinitly pass, you have a short feminine face, you just need to grow that hair out girl!
I wish I had the short kind of face! :@
hello! I'm new here and wanted to say wow im blown away by all the beauty here.  Just wanted to say Christine that I saw your pictures and you are very beautiful!! Im in love with youre long flowing natural hair and no need to get down about looks, im sure you always look wonderful. I dont think your face is too long at all I think its perfect the way it is. Best wishes to you!! <3
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706Phoenix

Looks to me that you are doing very well on HRT and no problem as passing as a female I hope to do as well
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