The horror stories I read are gay transmales who get top surgery and can no longer attract males of either orientation, so live alone.
The ones who like girls don't seem to have a problem finding a mate.
In my case, I didn't transition physically, but my transmale asexual state has affectively left me celibate. If I want to play woman I could attract a male, but past experience shows that I can't keep it up. As for women, my asexual state doesn't give me the motivation to endure their jealous fits and bossiness, so I usually make up excuses and move on. I soon gave up altogether.
My ex is talking about transitioning to non-binary female and moving to Thailand to be with me but past experience with him (now her) is that she can be more scary than my living alone, and I love living alone. I suppose miracles can happen with my ex, or I could actually meet someone, but otherwise, dunno.