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How to successfully hide my clothes from my parents.

Started by Luisa_2u, December 27, 2016, 07:07:27 PM

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Luisa_2u

Ok, I still live with my parents (not for long, I'm moving next year), and I really need to buy some underwear, for part of my own personal therapy..  ;D. But I don't know exactly on how to wash it...
I was thinking on washing on the shower, but then how do I get it to dry? I can't just take it to the clothesline...

Please, help me! I was thinking on taking it to dry at night at my bedroom. Will it work? Maybe I wash my underwear and try to see the results first...
All these ideas came just now as I am writhing.. So I really need your ideas.
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Dena

Hand washing in a sink and air drying works. When I was a kid I lived in snow country and without a dryer we would dry clothes inside as they would freeze stiff as a board if we hung them outside. Just make sure they don't come in contact with finished wood or metal that would rust or you will get some questions about what you are doing. A plastic coat hanger would work well for this.
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LordKAT

If you have a sympathetic friend, they could launder them for you or allow you to.
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Stevi

Wash your things in the sink, wring them out to get most of the water out.  Then roll them up in a dry towel.  Twist the towel tightly and when you remove them they will be nearly dry.  The little moisture that remains will evaporate quickly in your room.

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Luisa_2u

Ok, thanks everyone.

I live in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, so it is a hot place after all.
I don't know anyone who I can get help with it...
I don't have lots of money to get it to shops like laundromat. We have laundromat here in Brazil too but it's not what I need for now.

Sterusjon gave a nice idea after all... I think it come close to what I was thinking before. Doing it at my bedroom.
So, as I said before, I'll try with my own pieces and see what results I get.

Thanks again everyone.
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Luisa_2u

Success!!
Arigatou minna!  ;)

I know that hiding something is never good, and someday someone will always find out about it.
I don't feel like doing something wrong, but still hiding just to skip some argues (argues?? my english is not very well).
Anyway, I'm feeling like they'll discover about me anytime soon anyway..  ;D So why not doing something I always wanted to? I was afraid for them discovering but, hey! life is short right? lol

I'm going living alone next year anyway.
Let's begin living my own life.
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Larissa1991

I used to wear one piece swimsuits all the time when I went to pools where I didn't knew anyone. When I came back home I dried it in my room in the narrow space between my desk and wall.
Although it worked pretty well, years later I noticed that the wooden edge on the floor rotted. I don't live with my parents anymore.
But just be aware drying stuff can damage wallpaper / wooden edges on the wall, etc.
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Luisa_2u

Quote from: Larissa1991 on January 03, 2017, 10:05:32 AM
I used to wear one piece swimsuits all the time when I went to pools where I didn't knew anyone. When I came back home I dried it in my room in the narrow space between my desk and wall.
Although it worked pretty well, years later I noticed that the wooden edge on the floor rotted. I don't live with my parents anymore.
But just be aware drying stuff can damage wallpaper / wooden edges on the wall, etc.


Ok, thanks Larissa!
Can you tell more about what you said before? About going to pools wearing swimsuits. Like, I'm a trans woman and would never go swim using girls swimsuit...
Well... in fact, there was a time when I said I would never use panties and here I am...
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JayceeTG

I would say go to a laundromat someplace and wash your delicates there. I don't live at home with my parents but I do live with people that don't know that I am Transgender or that I cross dress at all so I try and plan my panties to be washed when nobody is around so then I can get it done.
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SpeakYourMind

Quote from: Luisa_2u on December 27, 2016, 07:07:27 PM
Ok, I still live with my parents (not for long, I'm moving next year), and I really need to buy some underwear, for part of my own personal therapy..  ;D. But I don't know exactly on how to wash it...
I was thinking on washing on the shower, but then how do I get it to dry? I can't just take it to the clothesline...

Please, help me! I was thinking on taking it to dry at night at my bedroom. Will it work? Maybe I wash my underwear and try to see the results first...
All these ideas came just now as I am writhing.. So I really need your ideas.

Growing up i wasn't allowed to wear male clothing until i was 18 so as a kid i used to take my clothing from my sisters X boy friends who would leave their clothes at my house and i vary lightly remember my sister defending me when my mother would find out she'd claim they where going to be returned and something else which i forgot.
(Makes me wonder if she new back then too, she claims she did i guess it's true) When i got older and found clothing i'd often would do something that may or may not work for you but i'd hide them under my beds mattress.
When it came to washing them do it when your family's not home.


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Luisa_2u

So here's what happening so far...

I asked for some private in my room all of the sudden. I hope she (mother) respect it, and everything is doing well so far.
I wash my panties (all this topic was for the panties lol) every night, and get it to clean at my room. By the morning it's already dry.
Suddenly I'm feeling the urge to transition full power, so it's just a matter of time for them to discover about it.
I'm currently hiding all the panties in my schoolbag. It looks crazy but it's the only place I know no one snoop around. But I'm planing on getting them in my drawer where my socks and others underwears are. That's because I feel bad hiding these things like this. I do not feel like doing something wrong. So I don't want to hide this for long...
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Bylandbyseabyair

Quote from: Luisa_2u on December 27, 2016, 07:07:27 PM
Ok, I still live with my parents (not for long, I'm moving next year), and I really need to buy some underwear, for part of my own personal therapy..  ;D. But I don't know exactly on how to wash it...
I was thinking on washing on the shower, but then how do I get it to dry? I can't just take it to the clothesline...

Please, help me! I was thinking on taking it to dry at night at my bedroom. Will it work? Maybe I wash my underwear and try to see the results first...
All these ideas came just now as I am writhing.. So I really need your ideas.

Take them to the laundromat.
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Luisa_2u

Ok, the results are the following...
I gained some private in my room and now I can hand wash my panties and get it to dry in my room. It comes to dry very fast by the way. I wash it around midnight and by morning is already dry.
I now put them in my closet. As I'm not totally hiding myself anymore. I'm not saying out loud for everyone to listen, but I'm not hiding as I was before.

Thanks everybody for the support on this topic!
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