I had seen the original version but i think they nailed it with this updated version, As a trans person and as a woman, I often thought of issues like surgery (FFS) and If we are conforming the cis society's idea of what is accepted, I have talked with some that so desperately want to change their faces (like the stories character) they are pushed to the brink bc they feel they cant live if they dont " blend in, pass" and I asked myself, should i be changing myself physically to meet their (societies) criteria or should I stand and change their criteria by showing them that regardless, I am a woman , tech a trans woman by birth but a woman nonetheless! If I was disfigured by an accident or by illness, would I be less a woman?
In different cultures or at different times through the ages, standards are and were different depending on what was considered " normal" for that society. I hear a lot overly defensive reactions when I bring this issue up, some say " its for me to feel better about myself" but if you follow that stream of thought, your really saying " I know whats accepted in society and I want to be that so that others accept me bc I look like more like the norm and so I will fit in and enjoy my life and so then I will be able to accept myself too if others do"! So what to say or think about the " in the eyes of the beholder" cautionary tale? These are my thoughts but we each must walk our own paths so no one person can define whats best for another but it is something to think about!
Blessings! Julie [emoji177]
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