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2017 what are your goals.

Started by Mikka55, December 30, 2016, 05:54:03 PM

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jingling_void

My goals are to manage my mental illness, quit smoking, read more, hang out more, write more fanfic, be a better person and of course start my medical transition (start t and all that jazz), be more happy within myself.
Maybe even travel back home during new year or smth.
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Thessa

- Finalize all things related to divorce
- Get fit again - start training with my daughter for vienna woman's run
- Continue (maybe finalize) beard removal
- maybe GRS, if the waiting list permits it in 2017
- Get my voice into the female range

That enough for one year I guess ;)


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Mikka55

That being said,  happy new year from Toronto,  Canada. 

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Steph Eigen

Quote from: warlockmaker on December 31, 2016, 12:55:39 AM
Becomming a better bhuddist and learning to lessen my ego. Giving back to society as part of my merits deeds in thanks for the wonderful life I have.

Further control the monkey mind.
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izzy

I need to get my family on board my transition.
start hrt
Finish electrolysis
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Angela Drakken

Stick to my diet. (Goal weight 165)
Find a place to live (being a couch surfer sucks.)
Out myself to my family.
Keep my job for as long as I can.
No more 'Wreck it Ralph' fits. >.<
Begin hair removal for SRS.
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DuchessBianca

1) Finish Hair Removal
2) Lose remaining 15 pounds or so
3) Get a surgery date for GRS for sometime near the end of 2017
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Janes Groove

 :)  8)  Use more emojis. Definitely. More emojis. ::)    8)
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DawnOday

1. Make it to 2018  (age 65)
2. Celebrate the birth of my daughter's baby. The babies birthday was about 4 months ago (conception) but we will celebrate when it is delivered and three months later celebrate another birthday.
3. Reveal myself in public at the Esprit conference in May.
4. Find a pair of boots that don't cost me the leg I would put it on.
Dawn Oday

It just feels right   :icon_hug: :icon_hug: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss: :icon_kiss:

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First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
Start HRT Aug 2016
First public appearance 5/15/17



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SpeakYourMind

Quote from: Mikka55 on December 30, 2016, 05:54:03 PM
2017 Is just a day a head.  I was wondering what are your goals for 2017?
Whether it is about transitioning,  being a better person,  family,  or just simply looking for a partner. 
For me for the most part,  2016 was a busy year for me,  finishing college,  working 2 jobs in the summer,  started hrt, looking for a new endo, my treach shave, and my break up.
I can very happily say.  Now I feel like it was a bit of a stressful year,  and now I feel like a huge load has been lifted from me. 
As for my goals,  I guess.. I can now start focusing on my career goals,  continue my hrt and keep telling myself its who I am. Relationship wise I don't know....My goals main goals is my career,  and to hopefully come out little by little. 

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Moving a second time and hopefully that's where it ends. Getting to actually live my life and having a chance  to make things better then they are in my future
Getting a job outside of where i am now and going to where i'd be more happy.
I'm having high hopes that by the end of this year i'll be going for a g.e.d and hopefully taking science classes to gain more knowledge in that area so i can get into astrology and study psychology.

After doing this i'll probably have a second goal of transitioning going good and passing more often


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MissGendered

#30
I'm a little late to this party, ha!

I don't do resolutions, but I do like a good plan..

This year I need to:

1) Raise the money for facial remodeling and get to Buenos Aires to have it done.

2) Love myself more, and find a love for me, in that order.

3) Relax.

Most of the hard stuff is behind me now, so I need to just let it flow...

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Lady_Oracle

Save at least half of my grs cost somehow

start laser hair removal downstairs for grs  :(
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Nina_Ottawa

Quote from: Lady_Oracle on January 18, 2017, 08:28:24 PM
Save at least half of my grs cost somehow

start laser hair removal downstairs for grs  :(

If you're from the US, you should consider Dr. Brassard in Montreal. Firstly, his GRS doesn't require hair removal "down there" and secondly, when you convert the cost of GRS into US$, you're getting about a 25% discount than if you had gone say five years ago.
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MissGendered

Quote from: Nina_Ottawa on January 18, 2017, 08:37:45 PM
If you're from the US, you should consider Dr. Brassard in Montreal. Firstly, his GRS doesn't require hair removal "down there" and secondly, when you convert the cost of GRS into US$, you're getting about a 25% discount than if you had gone say five years ago.

And he has amazing results aesthetically and in sensation, plus the recovery residence has 24-hour nursing care and a chef that makes scrumptious meals 3 times a day...

But not having to deal with pubic hair removal would have been enough of a clincher for me, lol...
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Lady_Oracle

Quote from: Nina_Ottawa on January 18, 2017, 08:37:45 PM
If you're from the US, you should consider Dr. Brassard in Montreal. Firstly, his GRS doesn't require hair removal "down there" and secondly, when you convert the cost of GRS into US$, you're getting about a 25% discount than if you had gone say five years ago.

Thanks for the advice but I've looked into him and everything. The cost alone is awesome but I've decided on a different surgeon for now for a few specific reasons. I definitely do need hair removal down there even if it's not required. I'd rather not risk it since there's not much I can do about the hair once postop. And as hairy as I'am its not a chance I'm willing to take  :-\
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PsychicSylph

I realized that I still have quite a few goals for 2017, so I'd like to share even though its already the new year.
1. Save up money for FFS: I realized that my gender dysphoria is mostly centered around my facial area. Its very bad, up to the point where I can't really look into the mirror, so this year I really want to do something about it.
2. Exercise more: I've been on HRT for the past 7 months and I have gained a lot of weight recently, in areas where I don't like. So now that my body is changing to the way I like, I'm gonna take advantage and gain a smaller waist and a bigger butt.
I guess everything is mostly appearance based, but my appearance has always bothered me since forever, so these goals are steps for my happiness.  :angel:
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Kylo

I gave up junk food especially chocolate, clearly Light Side temptations. Haven't thought about them since.

And someone just gave me a £40 voucher for a store that sells liquor and cake.

WHY
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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ghostbees

My goals are to find happiness and kickstart on my drawing and writing. I've already started to give up smoking[emoji108][emoji108]


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ghostbees

Quote from: Kylo on January 19, 2017, 11:50:29 AM
I gave up junk food especially chocolate, clearly Light Side temptations. Haven't thought about them since.

And someone just gave me a £40 voucher for a store that sells liquor and cake.

WHY
That voucher sounds just up my alley [emoji6]
Seriously though good luck!


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AlyssaJ

I've held off on posting a reply to this thread mostly because I don't really know the answer for me. I'm not one that makes yearly goals or resolutions but there are some things I'm working on that I would love to see get accomplished this year.  So here they are in no particular order:


  • Lose 10-15 lbs (I'm still up 10 from where I was 2 years ago when I got to my lowest adult weight)
  • Come to an answer on HRT and whether I intend to pursue it
  • Be happier in general. I'm realizing through therapy and talking with people how angry I have been when I was still repressing
  • Find a faith community that will accept me as Trans - I think I completed this one!!!
"I want to put myself out there, I want to make connections, I want to learn and if someone can get something out of my experience, I'm OK with that, too." - Laura Jane Grace

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