Hi Bird!
I hope you're having a beautiful day
I'm a PAI girl myself! And I'm 3 weeks post-op to this day. First off, I can say that my whole experience going to Thailand and having my SRS with PAI was truly wonderful. I went by myself too, which I was worried about as well, but I can reassure you that you should be totally fine. Pai does a really good job of accommodating you and making you feel like you're not alone. They assign you a liason that guides you through the whole process. They take care of all your scheduling, transportation etc. The guy I had was awesome, he really made me feel at home and took care of me. Once you get there everything moves by pretty quickly, so the loneliness factor isn't so bad. Everything is also really structured so I never felt lost or anything like that. I was worried about the flight too, especially the return flight, but it all went really well. When it was time for me to leave I didn't have too much pain anymore. If anything, it was really minimal, just a little soreness. I think I only took one painkiller on the flight back home, but I probably could've done without it if I wanted to. It ultimately depends though on one's own pain threshold and how your body responds to the surgery. Another thing is, if you haven't already, I would recommend setting up a wheelchair service through your airline. I did and it made it so much easier traveling back home. You don't have to put any strain on your body looking for your departure gates etc. and on my airlines they gave me better seats with more legroom and put me right next to the restrooms on the planes. In terms of complications, there's always a risk but with any experienced surgeon, such as the one's at PAI, the risk is minimal. I think I remember my surgeon telling me that 90% of their patients don't experience any complications, and the 10% that do they're usually very minimal complications that can easily be resolved. I didn't experience any complications, although I did have a little bit more swelling around my urethra so I had to wear the catheter for a couple of days longer, but once it was out everything was good.
In terms of what to bring, I tried to pack the least I could, but I still ended up overpacking haha. I didn't explore too much during the recovery in the hotel because I wanted to rest as much as possible so I could've brought far less clothing. Maxi dresses are good, I pretty much wore like three different ones and thats it. Any light loose clothing is good, nothing tight. I brought extra pads which came in handy. Lots of underwear is good too. I brought my laptop and netflix worked which was pretty awesome. I didn't bring any painkillers with me, and when you get discharged from the hospital they provide you with some painkillers as well as when you go to your follow up appointments they provide you with additional pain killers. They also give you a donut ring when you leave the hospital, its this rubbery material that you pump with air.
Anyways, I hope this is helpful in some way and I'm super excited for you! I wish you all the best on your upcoming surgery! You'll be in great hands
Much Love,
Alessia