I am paying with my health insurance.
I am not totally invested in Dr. Bluebond-Lagner performing my vaginoplasty revision, specifically clitoral reduction and labiaplasty. I want to have a consultation with her to learn more about these procedures and to discuss her experience with performing them. Clitoral reduction and labiaplasty aren't necessarily gender affirming surgical procedures for transgender women. Cis women get clitoral reduction and labiaplasty that health insurance companies sometimes cover.
Dr. Bluebond-Lagner's secretary sent me a list of requirements for gender affirming surgery pursuant to WPATH Standards of Care. As you may know, WPATH doesn't have letter standards for transgender patients wanting revisions. Moreover, none of the other surgeons that I have consulted with require transgender patients to have letters for revisions. Another point is that surgeons do not require letters of cis women wanting labiaplasty and vaginoplasty revisions
On a matter of principle, I believe that a three letter requirement for revisions of gender affirming surgeries places an extra hurtle for transgender patients, such as myself, who already had gender affirming surgeries and want revisions. Bearing that in mind, I will not provide access to my letters - once I get them - unless I decide to have a doctor perform my surgery only after my consultation and my health insurance company requires them. I am seeking a cosmetic revision, not necessary gender affirming surgery. My gender affirming surgery letters are confidential. Moreover, I don't want to share them for a consultation about a procedure that isn't gender affirming. I am unwavering on this point, even if it costs me from having Dr. Bluebond-Lagner performing my surgery. As mentioned, I will share the letters if my insurance requires them for revisions. The requirement of submission of three gender affirming surgery letters for a cosmetic revision that cis women have is highly out of the ordinary and makes transgender women do more work.
If Dr. Bluebond-Lagner's office wants to have greater chance that my insurance company will cover the cost of my consultation, then I'm willing to ask my primary care provider for a referral to Dr. Bluebond- Lagner. Moreover, Dr. Bluebond-Lagner's office is welcome to submit a preauthorization to my insurance to cover the cost of the consultation.