Just out of curiosity. It's pricey, takes forever to fill out a profile and the founder is a big homophobe but I thought I'd ask anyway.

Nope but just to add they've also been found to put up fake profiles of people that seem interested in your profile to get you to pay for a subscription. And then when you pay up ofc you're left with very few real people to choose from same as any other dating site.

Nope. I've had the most success with OkCupid of the major dating sites.

Yes. That is how I met my current wife. Could explain why I might have a small chance of staying together. Very small, but that chance is there.

Met my hubby on OKCupid almost four years ago.

Quote from: Elis on January 30, 2017, 10:17:33 AM
Nope but just to add they've also been found to put up fake profiles of people that seem interested in your profile to get you to pay for a subscription. And then when you pay up ofc you're left with very few real people to choose from same as any other dating site.

Ahh I hate that. Match does it too.

I tried eharmony. After 3 months, my profile was only viewed once, so I dropped it. Then, I met my hubby on OKCupid.

I've had so-so luck on okcupid but never tried eHarmony. I think with the founder being a homophobe alone I'd steer clear.

I've never tried eHarmony and probably never will because of the cost. There are so many other dating services that are free and far more gay and trans friendly. I also met my long term partner on OkCupid.

When I was female presenting I used it over 10 years ago and it was SO expensive and there were very few matches for me. When I used it they only let you talk to your matches and you can't see any other profiles. I'm sure that it is only for cis straight people. I think it's a big scam.