Like Michelle say's it takes time. It's a marathon, not a sprint. I'm at 6 months and considerably older than you are. But here is what happened to me. In the first week I lost the will to argue and complain. Not totally but it is more thought out. By month two I also got breast buds but I have been on spiro for 25 years so I had a bit of a head start and now the breasts are filling in, getting rounder, more sensitive. I am now tickling a C cup. My balls went from walnut size to pecan size. My butt is just now filling out. My face softened and wrinkles became less prominent. Don't get me wrong my face is still gnarly. I am getting electrolysis. Lucky for you, you have dark hair and laser will do the trick. I am about 50% done. I now feel incredibly serene compared to 8 months ago when I almost had a breakdown. I've been pushing this rock around for almost 60 years. I knew I was different at 5 and started dressing at 7. Just be patient, its going to be fine. You will shortly see significant changes but it usually affects your brain in the first couple weeks, month. After that seems at least for me things are moving along just fine. Glad you are taking steps for self fulfillment and that you have the support of a loved one. It does make all the difference.
Dawn