SRS with Dr. Brassard October 12 2016

islandgirl · February 04, 2017, 10:47:04 AM

You are a determined girl! I have faith that you will reach your goal! Hugs

archlord · February 05, 2017, 11:05:00 AM

I still didnt reach orgasm yet either Jujubes . My friend that went with brassard, it took her 1 year and half before she got a real orgasm. It is different for everyone but we need patience

jujubes1986 · February 05, 2017, 11:48:27 AM

Quote from: archlord on February 05, 2017, 11:05:00 AM
I still didnt reach orgasm yet either Jujubes . My friend that went with brassard, it took her 1 year and half before she got a real orgasm. It is different for everyone but we need patience

Thnx girl

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jujubes1986 · February 16, 2017, 06:37:32 PM

My vagina starting to smell... not really bad but it smells funny like musty... it's always wet... I try to make sure I don't have left over pee when I finish peeing I always wait like a minute before I get up and i wipe... ugh it's embarrassing... smelly vagina..

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Dena · February 16, 2017, 07:55:59 PM

If you are using it for sex, it could be the remnants from past encounters. If not, you might want to get it checked out. We can get yeast infections and I had one while I was still healing.

jujubes1986 · February 16, 2017, 08:21:52 PM

Quote from: Dena on February 16, 2017, 07:55:59 PM
If you are using it for sex, it could be the remnants from past encounters. If not, you might want to get it checked out. We can get yeast infections and I had one while I was still healing.

But I always douche

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jessical · February 16, 2017, 08:32:54 PM

Quote from: jujubes1986 on February 16, 2017, 06:37:32 PM
My vagina starting to smell... not really bad but it smells funny like musty... it's always wet... I try to make sure I don't have left over pee when I finish peeing I always wait like a minute before I get up and i wipe... ugh it's embarrassing... smelly vagina..

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I have the wetness issue. For me it was urine getting stuck in my vagina. I solved the issue by reaching around and slightly pulling my labia majora aside and the rest would come out. If I do not do that, then I would leak out onto my liner and that would smell like urine. If it smells like anything else, you might have an infection.

Dena · February 16, 2017, 08:34:57 PM

Douching to often can prevent the good bacteria from gaining a foot hold and the bad surviving. I last douched while I was still healing from surgery and my dilator comes out smelling like the lubricating jelly. This is with dilating once a week so any odor would have plenty of time to accumulate. Again, discuss this with a doctor because I don't know the state of your healing or if you are having issues.

SadieBlake · February 17, 2017, 04:07:23 AM

Ideally the vagina is protected by lactobacillus, eat lots of yoghurt and / or consider douching with diluted yoghurt are suggestions I've seen. There's a Susan's thread on it, I don't have a link but it's recent.

jujubes1986 · February 17, 2017, 07:02:21 AM

Quote from: SadieBlake on February 17, 2017, 04:07:23 AM
Ideally the vagina is protected by lactobacillus, eat lots of yoghurt and / or consider douching with diluted yoghurt are suggestions I've seen. There's a Susan's thread on it, I don't have a link but it's recent.

Thank you!

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jujubes1986 · February 17, 2017, 07:03:21 AM

Quote from: Dena on February 16, 2017, 08:34:57 PM
Douching to often can prevent the good bacteria from gaining a foot hold and the bad surviving. I last douched while I was still healing from surgery and my dilator comes out smelling like the lubricating jelly. This is with dilating once a week so any odor would have plenty of time to accumulate. Again, discuss this with a doctor because I don't know the state of your healing or if you are having issues.

I'm not in any pain... dilating is ok now... but I will talk to the doctor just to make sure

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jujubes1986 · February 17, 2017, 07:04:20 AM

Quote from: jessical on February 16, 2017, 08:32:54 PM
I have the wetness issue. For me it was urine getting stuck in my vagina. I solved the issue by reaching around and slightly pulling my labia majora aside and the rest would come out. If I do not do that, then I would leak out onto my liner and that would smell like urine. If it smells like anything else, you might have an infection.

Yea maybe urine... it doesn't smell really bad... it's just off...

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mm · February 17, 2017, 11:36:47 AM

jessical's suggestion of holding your labia apart and wiping the last few drops is a good idea to always do after peeing.

jujubes1986 · February 17, 2017, 11:45:45 AM

Quote from: mm on February 17, 2017, 11:36:47 AM
jessical's suggestion of holding your labia apart and wiping the last few drops is a good idea to always do after peeing.

I tried it today.., seems to work

liner isn't as wet

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jujubes1986 · February 18, 2017, 04:59:09 PM

Going into surgery I had high hopes... but my vagina doesn't even work... it's only 5 inches deep and it's too tight my bf can't even go all the way in... it hurts and I can't orgasm... the surgery is a big fail... I hate it... I regret it...

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KayXo · February 18, 2017, 11:05:10 PM

The average depth of a woman's vagina appears to be about 4.5 inches. You need time to let things heal. You could try and contact Dr. Brassard. Estrogen helps with making vagina less dry, thus less painful intercourse. Are you dilating regularly and following instructions to a tee?

Mariah · February 19, 2017, 12:31:07 AM

It takes time and more healing. In time, he will be able to. My husband is having to wait to. Hang in there. Hang in there. Hugs
Mariah

Quote from: jujubes1986 on February 18, 2017, 04:59:09 PM
Going into surgery I had high hopes... but my vagina doesn't even work... it's only 5 inches deep and it's too tight my bf can't even go all the way in... it hurts and I can't orgasm... the surgery is a big fail... I hate it... I regret it...

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mszoey · February 19, 2017, 05:25:30 AM

Quote from: jujubes1986 on February 18, 2017, 04:59:09 PM
Going into surgery I had high hopes... but my vagina doesn't even work... it's only 5 inches deep and it's too tight my bf can't even go all the way in... it hurts and I can't orgasm... the surgery is a big fail... I hate it... I regret it...

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Hun don't say stuff like that it makes us worry about you. And have you tried dialating before intercourse? I heard that helps a lot. But just be patient things will come your still in your first year. Things generally aren't normal till after a year post op. Hang in there Hun [emoji8]
Also msg me if you want I will give you my number and we can chat

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Rachel · February 19, 2017, 07:03:53 PM

My doctor has me showering every day and cleaning the vaginal area with soap and water. I have to dry pack to help remove the dead surface skin 0 to 1.5 inches into the vaginal canal. It is working slowly and pink skin is showing on areas (bacteria loved the dead skin), She also has me using hydrocortisone cream 2 times a day. The cream helps loosen the scar tissue around the vagina rim and if needed esterase cream will be prescribed.

I drink a smoothie with greens (kale, dandelion, Swiss chard and parsley), berries, carrots, live yogurt, blue green algae and protein powder and banana several times a week.

islandgirl · February 20, 2017, 03:46:23 PM

I have no doubt that you are frustrated and have regrets about your surgery. This is not uncommon. You are, as I said earlier, a strong woman! The issues that come up post surgery of any kind vary person to person. I know that it is very difficult for you now, wanting to pursue a physical relationship and all. As difficult as it seems now, it is critical that you keep a positive view of your future in recovery. Our bodies can respond negatively in relationship to our emotional state. I have seen this in my counselling clients during the time that I practiced. I am continuing to send you positive thoughts! Many hugs! Kelly

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