Quote from: emmi/andy on January 27, 2008, 08:16:28 AM
Alright, I'm an aggressive androgyne, but I will accept that cup of tea.

My aggression doesn't generally come out anymore. I'm angry a lot, because I'm short, female bodied, and young looking, so people don't take me seriously. However, I'm pretty good at controlling myself, after a lot of practice, because I don't like hurting people (emotionally or physically). It sucks though, people usually take that to mean that I'm not affected in any way, and that's not true at all. I've had that "coldness" label applied to me a lot, partly because I think very logically and partly because it's my way of trying to avoid hurting people when I'm upset.

   I had a very angry period and nobody even knew.  It was for the same reason as you; I don't want to hurt people emotionally or physically.  I wonder if that is the secret of our seeming mildness - that we have the need to not hurt others at any cost.


   

Quote from: Rebis on January 27, 2008, 02:10:40 PM
I had a very angry period and nobody even knew.

oh i think some of us knew...

Quote from: ell on January 27, 2008, 09:46:06 PM

Quote from: Rebis on January 27, 2008, 02:10:40 PM
I had a very angry period and nobody even knew.

oh i think some of us knew...

Whyyyyy youuuuuuuuuuuuu!  I'm going to kick your behind.   

Quote from: Rebis on January 23, 2008, 07:53:46 PM
I can't speak for the others, but, in my case, I have a need for calm.  Plus, I see and understand most all sides to a situation.  If others might be wrong, then I might be wrong too.  I have to consider that what I see in other people is also who I am, or, who I could be.

It's like you're in my head, Rebis!!! 

I've only recently achieved this calmness...I'd say in the last two years.  Before that, I shifted between extreme numbness, anger, and depression, but I didn't display that in front of others without some extreme pushing.  But one day I realized how unhealthy it was to get so swallowed up by all of those negative feelings and I decided to change.  Anger and the like are a waste of energy, as far as I'm concerned.  Basically, I got tired of being tired.    It's a lot easier to not get angry than to deal with the consequences of that anger. 

I've got some pretty serious detachment issues myself...

Quote from: Jaimey on February 02, 2008, 03:17:49 PM

Quote from: Rebis on January 23, 2008, 07:53:46 PM
I can't speak for the others, but, in my case, I have a need for calm.  Plus, I see and understand most all sides to a situation.  If others might be wrong, then I might be wrong too.  I have to consider that what I see in other people is also who I am, or, who I could be.

It's like you're in my head, Rebis!!! 

I've only recently achieved this calmness...I'd say in the last two years.  Before that, I shifted between extreme numbness, anger, and depression, but I didn't display that in front of others without some extreme pushing.  But one day I realized how unhealthy it was to get so swallowed up by all of those negative feelings and I decided to change.  Anger and the like are a waste of energy, as far as I'm concerned.  Basically, I got tired of being tired.    It's a lot easier to not get angry than to deal with the consequences of that anger. 

I've got some pretty serious detachment issues myself...

I notice the same in myself....shifting between serenity ( I luv this word  ) and extreme anger and frustration

I expect HRT, if I ever get it, to put me more at ease

Quote from: Veetje on February 03, 2008, 06:12:01 AM

Quote from: Jaimey on February 02, 2008, 03:17:49 PM

Quote from: Rebis on January 23, 2008, 07:53:46 PM
I can't speak for the others, but, in my case, I have a need for calm.  Plus, I see and understand most all sides to a situation.  If others might be wrong, then I might be wrong too.  I have to consider that what I see in other people is also who I am, or, who I could be.

It's like you're in my head, Rebis!!! 

I've only recently achieved this calmness...I'd say in the last two years.  Before that, I shifted between extreme numbness, anger, and depression, but I didn't display that in front of others without some extreme pushing.  But one day I realized how unhealthy it was to get so swallowed up by all of those negative feelings and I decided to change.  Anger and the like are a waste of energy, as far as I'm concerned.  Basically, I got tired of being tired.    It's a lot easier to not get angry than to deal with the consequences of that anger. 

I've got some pretty serious detachment issues myself...

I notice the same in myself....shifting between serenity ( I luv this word  ) and extreme anger and frustration

I expect HRT, if I ever get it, to put me more at ease

thirded, people laugh when I try and express my anger

Quote from: Pica Pica on February 03, 2008, 04:00:46 PM
thirded, people laugh when I try and express my anger

Ouch! That must really hurt.

y2g

means I don't often feel angry, when a feeling has been invalidated that often...

People look at me like I'm some crazy bitch when I get upset, like I'm the only person in the world who isn't allowed to be angry.  I don't even get angry, really.  I just get frustrated and then I somehow become the bad guy. 

I don't really get it.  If I get mad at my little brother, I'm supposed to remain calm because I'm older.  If I point out something that someone else does that upsets me, I'm a bitch.  Strange how those same standards don't apply to everyone else.  Especially since I'm one of the most immovable, aloof people you will ever meet.  And god forbid I have pms!!!  (...it's a long story, but I'm on the verge of ripping my ovaries out...makes for a slightly cranky Jaimey...)

I spent a long time burying any emotion which is unhealthy according to EVERYONE, so I try to become more emotional and to express my emotions, which is inconvenient for those around me.  *sigh* 

Quote from: Pica Pica on February 03, 2008, 05:20:49 PM
means I don't often feel angry, when a feeling has been invalidated that often...

awww you're just a big baby

Quote from: Jaimey on February 03, 2008, 05:43:46 PM
People look at me like I'm some crazy bitch when I get upset, like I'm the only person in the world who isn't allowed to be angry.  I don't even get angry, really.  I just get frustrated and then I somehow become the bad guy. 

I don't really get it.  If I get mad at my little brother, I'm supposed to remain calm because I'm older.  If I point out something that someone else does that upsets me, I'm a bitch.  Strange how those same standards don't apply to everyone else.  Especially since I'm one of the most immovable, aloof people you will ever meet.  And god forbid I have pms!!!  (...it's a long story, but I'm on the verge of ripping my ovaries out...makes for a slightly cranky Jaimey...)

I spent a long time burying any emotion which is unhealthy according to EVERYONE, so I try to become more emotional and to express my emotions, which is inconvenient for those around me.  *sigh* 

Me too.

Thank God Jaimey was born with the ovaries I was supposed to get.

I could mail them to you...

1st or 2nd class?

Quote from: Jaimey on February 03, 2008, 06:31:13 PM
I could mail them to you...

Personally I'd recommend using something a little less drastic than a chainsaw 

y2g

yeah.  I don't need no messed up ovaries.

Take them out gently and package them safely.  I'll be more than happy to sign for them.

---

act II

Rebis places the ovaries in a nest and impregnates the eggs creating an army of androgynes.

SRS by Mcculloch chainsaw??? "Yetch!!!" Well I love all you guys anyway regardless of attitudes. When I get angry it only last for about five minutes tops, then I probably come out with some outlandish joke then laugh my butt off.  Hey Jaimey hon, you know where to find me if you have a need to let a little steam off. Heck I know all about that with people that know your personality and temperament they know they can get away with a lot of crap. Well may they get abducted by aliens and dropped off on some remote unknown rock on some corner of west hell. Nah...not that mean, I just wish them pimples on their sex. Goodness must be a lot infected of folks with this new infliction.

Cindy 

* in my lab*

remove my own testes
place them in a metal shake cup with the ovaries
shake them up
shake them up
shake them up
place contents in a nicely built nest
await birth of a new world order.

"Hee, hee, hee!" laughing my tooter off. That was a really good one. This laughing thing, maybe it's contagious ah?

Thanks, Love ya

Cindy

Quote from: Rebis on February 03, 2008, 10:36:55 PM
Rebis places the ovaries in a nest and impregnates the eggs creating an army of androgynes.

now, would you be doing that artificially or, au naturale? 

don't wanna get the wrong mental picture here.

-ellie

How's that army coming?  I'm glad I could contribute to the Androgyne take-over!

Quote from: y2gender on February 03, 2008, 07:14:12 PM
Personally I'd recommend using something a little less drastic than a chainsaw 
y2g

The pint sized emoticon chainsaw worked pretty well.  At least they don't hurt anymore...