So I have been dating this girl for 3 weeks now. After 1.5 weeks of dating I came out to her, I told her I was trans and gender fluid. She didn't know what it was at the moment.. Then after a few days she started asking me all these trans questions. I told her I was genderfluid, still mostly male but some time I feel feminine and want to cross dress, then the next day she said if I would have srs. So I told her again genderfluid. What pissed me off today was that she was worried that I would turn gay later on because of articles she read online. So I was like !#$@% in my head really that's how you see me? And I told her I was transitioning in the beginning of the dating process, and I told her I was on Spiro and it will affect my reproduction, and now all of the sudden she said well her dream was always to have her own family.... So I was like #@%&$ really??? So I told her even if I did stop transitioning I'm not really a kid person, and also I am not quitting my transition for you because it makes me happy for once. At one point of the convo she wants me to have smaller breasts... So I told her no! I made this much progress and you want me to de-transition. No not right now. So it was a big shock for both of us and we ended it there. I'm so mad at her for accusing me of liking men in the future and also when we first dated she never ever mentioned anything about family or kids. Sooo Pissed right now. Now I'm starting to get the struggle feeling of dating and being trans.
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