do you take them out everyday? I wear mine always, when going to sleep, when taking a bath, every moment of my day I have them, my mom told me I shouldn't take 'em out because my ears would be sensitive and not being able to wear bigger earrings in the future.
It's been 10 days with earrings and my lobes don't hurt anymore even if I play with the earrings, I thing you shouldn't take 'em out for some time to get used to them.