So today I was trying on this style with the top and the leather jacket.  Both pieces of clothing were ladies section.   It looked nice on me.  But why did I feel like ughhhh I look such a male.  Or.... could this look could actually be my non-binary androgynous look. ??

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That is a pretty androgynous look.

I pay less attention to which side of the store a piece of clothing originated on, and more to how it looks.  I have a couple of flamboyant men's shirts that I am keeping because they actually look quite girly.  And there are lots of clothes in the ladies' section that I won't even consider.  My style is quite girly.  An item of clothing has to have nice colours or a swishy fabric or something feminine to attract my attention.  I don't want to wear anything a male might wear.

If the look you are going for is androgynous, that outfit will do nicely.  But it sounds like it wasn't working for you.

I feel its because of the pants i was wearing.  If I was wearing leggings ill prob see my self differently. 

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I would agree that you look androgynous in the photo. If I saw you in person I would be looking for additional cues, such as mannerisms, posture, accessories/purse and voice.

Even after zooming in on my phone, I couldn't tell for sure.

Basically I think you could push it one way or the other.

Still- I love the look!


~Brooke~

I "think" I know why i'm getting these thoughts,  yeah at time im can try on feminine cloths,  I have never really tried girly girly dresses or clothing yet,  most of my "new" wardrobe is androgenous.   I "think" I found myself a bit more too,  while​ trying on clothing. Girly girly,  I still need to experiment witj that more,  but lately,  I have been seeing myself as "The Tough Chick" if you know what I mean.  That's... kinda my style.  If any of that makes sense.

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The "Rocker/Rebel" look

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IMO, fit is a big gender indicator.  What you are wearing is very baggy and therefore comes off non-female in my eyes.....not necessarily masculine, just not female.

A bit better... but yeah i'm starting to get it. 

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I mean yeah i guess i can do that look above,  if I am having one of those agender feminine days. Don't see why not.

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Quote from: staciM on April 18, 2017, 10:33:15 PM
IMO, fit is a big gender indicator.  What you are wearing is very baggy and therefore comes off non-female in my eyes.....not necessarily masculine, just not female.

Thanks for describing it that way.  Made something click for me.

Mikka, your second look does appear feminine to me.

Thanks Jcsacc

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