I have been on HRT for around 2 years. I was 36 when I started. Across that time my levels have been very stable. T=0.4 E=1200 pmol. I found I get the greatest results from implanted estrogen and spiro.
I noticed some changes in sense of smell and mental focus immediately. My libido plummeted within days of beginning spiro.
After about 3-4 weeks, my nipples were swollen and tender, and a bit itchy. After 3 months, they were clearly developing breast buds. At that stage, my skin was getting much softer and my lips were much darker.
At about 7 months, I got fitted for my first bra. My body stopped producing sperm altogether, and by 9 months, pretty much stopped producing semen. By about 9 months I was struggling to hide my transition. People were noticing changes. I changed my name and gender presentation in public. At 9 months was also roughly when I started to notice some fat redistribution.
At about 14 months, I was consistently passing in public. My disposition towards sex was very different. I could orgasm multiple times. Th shape and colour of my genitals were changing. I had lost a lot of muscle mass, and gained a lot of fat. My emotional sensitivity had shifted dramatically too, finding this whole new ocean of emotion.
Since then, the physical effects have slowed down a little. My face continues to change, and there has been some slight further breast growth and areola development over the last 3 months. I mostly wear a c-cup now, but can still squeeze into a B.
But since people began reading me as female, the biggest aspect of my transition has been social. At the beginning of transition, I was so worried about transphobia that I didn't really stop to think about how women are treated in society. Now it's a rude shock that keeps confronting me every few days in different ways. It really is a man's world out there, and women are expected to be demure, unobtrusive, and subservient. Still, I've forged some amazing new friends, both cis and trans, who are supportive people, and help me work through these challenges.
I have had so many weird, funny and unusual experiences. During that phase when you are visibly between genders, people would often call me ma'am and sir... all in the same sentence. I had to have a genital ultrasound recently, which confused a few people. They were trying to tell me the doctor had made an error because he had written 'testicular ultrasound' which can't apply to women.
I also found myself involved in all kinds of confronting conversations about women's issues that I never really considered. Where I've confided with other women about my struggles with gender, many have reciprocated and shared their own personal stories. I have listened to women's experiences of sexual assault, stalking, workplace inequality, rape, period problems, sex problems, misogyny, mental health issues, reproductive rights, infertility, pregnancy problems, and a whole lot more. In some ways, those conversations did more for my transition than any medication could. I learned how to be emotionally supportive without feeling the need to provide solutions. I found common ground and forged connections and friendships with other women.
I dated a guy for three months and learned a lot about how gender roles affect romance in a hetero relationship. (that's a whole other thread).
The TERF-TRANS war continues to trouble me, and I am vocal about ways to reconcile the seemingly conflicting ideals of equality.
I am undergoing SRS in two months time, and then FFS in September. At that point, I will probably consider my transition to be complete.
Hope that helps! All the best for your journey. [emoji4]
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