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No sexual libido?

Started by SailorMars1994, April 27, 2017, 07:51:34 AM

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RobynD

Mine has come back up from zero of about a year ago. It has returned in a typical female pattern if there is such a thing. A lot different than before. Now it is about emotional desire that leads to physical expression not about the acts themselves. The acts themselves are awesome though.

Having said that a lot of women i think report that they may not have a lustful drive if you will, but once things get stimulated, they become aroused and are ready to go. This is a lot different than using visual queues, fantasies, porn etc to become aroused.

Perhaps it is a matter of choosing to exercise the various systems and you would feel better about it.


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laurenb

Mine was low to begin with pre-HRT but still a major distraction. Now it's much more satisfying to put some music on and make a great meal.... Guess all those women's magazines were right. I try just to see if it's actually functional but get kinda bored halfway through. I mean it can work if I really want to but there's probably something good in the fridge. :)
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TransAm

Pre-T, my sex drive was a bit of an anomaly--if I started the process of masturbating, I couldn't stop until I hit at least 8-10--and it's just gotten worse after starting T. The multiples are out of the question but the drive has become more of an extreme need than a want. Three times a day minimum, five times a day preferably.
I'm a year and a half in now and it's just now sort of toned down. It was seriously taking up huge chunks of my days.

Anyway, I just popped on to add to the myriad of voices that have said it's normal. You really don't hear of many women with high sex drives, cis or trans. My cisgender fiancée says that she rarely thinks about sex until something mentally triggers it; that seems to be the norm.
As far as not finding the same things arousing, that's normal too. I didn't realize how much my preferences would change but things that used to 'do it' for me before now just seem dull and lackluster.
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SailorMars1994

Quote from: SailorMars1994 on April 27, 2017, 12:35:32 PM
Intresting.. I cant wait till i get an Orchiectomy! i want the boys gone.

I should have mentioned, i had the words totally wrong. I didnt know what Orchiectomy really was until recent....I want full GRS.... for whatever reason I thought the two were part and parcel. Also Jeanette... here I am, you got your wish again ;D!!!
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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