Hello there,
first of, i'm sorry if this is the wrong Board to post this but i am just done right now. >.>
As i am fairly new to cross dressing and stuff, i have never been outside while crossdressing. I decided to change that today. Or more.. Tonight, as it was 1:30 am when i decided to get going.
So, my actual plan was to get outside, with a dress, some leggins, and a hoodie, go to the 24h Store and buy something, then get home and quietly party in my room.
Well, things turned out kinda differently, my social anxiety was a pretty big factor in this as i just couldn't get myself to go into that bightly lit store. Well, after kinda lurking around that store for about 5 minutes, i decided to just leave it there and head back home.
On the way home now the actual experience happened. I crossed path with this guy, he was obviously drunk (which was probably a big factor in the following) and probably on his way home, but i didn't recognize him, so i was just planning to keep my hood on and just walk past him. Then he kinda stopped, tried to slap my ass (i suppose), saying something like "What's up, lil girl, wanna join me and have a bit of fun?". Of course i got away as quick as i could, leaving him behind, as he didnt follow me at all.
Nearly at home i kinda realized what happened, that i almost got somewhat sexually assaulted, all that as a girl. Of course the experience itself was kinda really messed up, but like.. the feeling of just.. that i was just a girl at that real moment, that just felt awesome.
I just wanted to share this little story right now and hope noone minds. And once again, i'm sorry if this is the wrong board >.<

Wow, yes, talk about your mixed feelings!  "My attacker gendered me correctly!"  Yikes!

I am glad you are safe.  And I am glad you were able to take a positive from the situation.  Do stay safe out there!

You should have chinned the weirdo. Last time that happened to me I broke his nose.

Quote from: big kim on May 08, 2017, 12:55:44 AM
You should have chinned the weirdo. Last time that happened to me I broke his nose.

I like Kim's answer.

But I had a similar good & bad at the same time.  I still don't know if I should be sad or happy about it.

Oh well let's go with it was a complement.

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Quote from: Denise on May 08, 2017, 04:37:57 PM
I like Kim's answer.

But I had a similar good & bad at the same time.  I still don't know if I should be sad or happy about it.

Oh well let's go with it was a complement.

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It wasn't a complement, it was a crime.

Imagine those of us who've been raped or sexually assaulted coming online to see this story, and reading that 'wow' it's 'awesome', it's flattering, it's a 'complement'. It really isn't.

Totally, 'chin the weirdo' works - if your 'fight, flight, or freeze' response happens to land on that particular square at the right time.

Quote from: alex82 on May 09, 2017, 12:51:04 PM
Imagine those of us who've been raped or sexually assaulted coming online to see this story, and reading that 'wow' it's 'awesome', it's flattering, it's a 'complement'. It really isn't.

Yes, it really isn't but for someone who is transgender, it's complicated.
You like the validation, but not the reason why.

Quote from: KarynMcD on May 09, 2017, 01:48:56 PM
Yes, it really isn't but for someone who is transgender, it's complicated.
You like the validation, but not the reason why.

I didn't feel validated. It destroyed my life.