I don't go out in public at all yet. But when I am home, I like to tuck unwanted bits away. I bought one gaf one time, and it just broke because it was not made strong enough at all. I find the best results from tucking the balls up inside, and then pushing that other pesky unwanted member down and back, and then I put on first, really tight panties, and then tights over that, and sometimes a leotard as well. And it is quite comfortable, and gives a pretty good look, and I can still pretty easily use the bathroom when I need to.