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Feeling awesome

Started by The Flying Lemur, May 23, 2017, 08:07:32 PM

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The Flying Lemur

I'm about halfway out at this point, and to the best of my ability, am presenting full-time as male.  As my picture should make clear, I don't remotely pass, which sucks, but it doesn't change the fact that being open about my true self with myself and others feels fantastic.  I haven't had a picture of myself that I've liked in decades.   I always end up looking  miserable and deeply uncomfortable with myself.  It usually takes tons and tons of attempts with a camera to get me looking anywhere close to normal.  I got the image at left on my third try this morning.  I don't look like a cis guy, but I look happy, because I am.  Every time I make it an inch more forward in my transition, I feel better.  Even my dreams are better now. 

I really don't know what the future will bring, and maybe things will get a lot harder.  But right now, the benefits of transition absolutely outweigh the drawbacks for me.  Just felt like telling people to celebrate.  :)
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. --Joseph Campbell
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KathyLauren

Glad to hear that it is going well for you. :)
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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