M to F What do you miss?

Erika_Courtney · May 25, 2017, 04:42:13 PM

For those who are or have transitioned what if anything do you miss about the time you presented male.

For me I would miss:
The speed at which I can make it in and out of the bathroom. Not even factoring in the lack of line.

I am not always a fan of doing being asked to do manly things, but it does stroke my ego when a woman ask me to do something manly.

An entire year worth of hair cut/style in 120 minutes or less.

bchigdon10 · May 25, 2017, 04:52:08 PM

I know an Erika Courtney or my wife dies here in Lewisburg Tn where u from?

Sent from my VS500PP using Tapatalk

bchigdon10 · May 25, 2017, 04:52:52 PM

I meant does not dies

Sent from my VS500PP using Tapatalk

Erika_Courtney · May 25, 2017, 05:07:38 PM

Quote from: bchigdon10 on May 25, 2017, 04:52:08 PM
I know an Erika Courtney or my wife dies here in Lewisburg Tn where u from?

Sent from my VS500PP using Tapatalk

I'm from the Northeast.

bchigdon10 · May 25, 2017, 05:11:15 PM

K you spell your name just like the lady here does.

Sent from my VS500PP using Tapatalk

SailorMars1994 · May 25, 2017, 05:13:52 PM

Nothing.. nothing at all

Still thinking......

Nope, not a thing comes to mind. Hard to fathom.

KathyLauren · May 25, 2017, 06:56:33 PM

Not a thing.

I still do all the "guy stuff" at home: I open jar lids for my wife; I built a deck last week. Nothing much has changed except I don't have to pretend to actually be a guy any more.

HappyMoni · May 25, 2017, 06:57:10 PM

I miss not being self conscious about my voice. I don't miss the actual voice.
Moni

Cimara · May 25, 2017, 07:07:56 PM

I don't really remember doing anything male oriented before transition. So absolutely nothing.

Devlyn · May 25, 2017, 07:28:38 PM

Hunting and shooting and fishing and driving like a nut and.......wait, I still do all that!

Dani · May 25, 2017, 07:59:47 PM

The only thing I really miss is all the time I could have lived as my true female self, instead of pretending to be male. I feel so good now. I regret not transitioning sooner.

Sinclair · May 25, 2017, 10:14:53 PM

Nothing. I can honestly say I miss nothing. Just gained more. That said, I have not had GRS yet. I plan on another year of HRT before contemplating that. As it stands now, I'm good and miss nothing and have no regrets. Some annoyances, like mood swings, etc., and sometimes they can be unpredictable.

Doreen · May 25, 2017, 10:43:37 PM

well I was living a forced lie in the first place, but I did have a few guy friends I miss from the old life. They were mostly nerds like me. Has nothing to do with former 'identity', but I do miss them. And some of my gal friends too! At least I got back in contact with some of them.. that is a good thing

Wendyway2 · May 25, 2017, 11:43:36 PM

Hello,

For me being a male meant being very mafioso and very butch. If your family is this way women are second in command. As far as my own marriage, there is nothing I miss, I submit to her my power that she do with it as she wills. Being male to me meant every conflict ended in depression. These days I don't let it bother me if for some reason some male is on a power trip.

Georgette · May 26, 2017, 01:17:54 AM

I always joke the one thing I kind of miss, is the ease my bothers have when hiking and needing to pee. I have to find something to sit on or lean against.
They do make devices to make that easier so, Sure don't miss that part of my anatomy.

Brooke · May 26, 2017, 03:07:34 AM

Being able to look "put together" in under 15 minutes. Not even about passing etc. Just much faster to get ready to the point where you would feel comfortable going on a first date, or interviewing for a job.

~Brooke~

KatieByrne · May 26, 2017, 05:27:29 AM

No there's nothing i miss about presenting as male.

I mean, anything you could do then you can still do now.

Barb99 · May 26, 2017, 07:31:41 AM

Not a thing, not one single thing!

RobynD · May 26, 2017, 12:56:09 PM

Very little if anything is missed. There is of course the loss of male privilege and being able to "blend in" within a traditional cultural sort of way but those were known going in.

Doreen · May 26, 2017, 01:01:23 PM

Oh I finally realized something I DO miss... I suspect it has more to do with my age than anything else though... I miss stamina. Like I can be totally pooped after working out 10 minutes. 30 minutes I'm about to pass out. I wasn't that way younger. That and strength, I used to be a lot stronger.. I'd be ok if I got 'grace' in trade, but nope lol.

News:

M to F What do you miss?

Wendyway2