Actually, I began sitting down to pee at home 30 years ago, when I realized our son liked to crawl around behind the toilet when I was in there. For keeping it clean, it became the obvious thing to do.

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Quote from: LaRell on May 11, 2017, 01:32:09 PM
I need to start this sitting down to pee thing.  For one, my wife hates having to clean my pee off the toilet when I miss.  I try to always clean it when I miss, but sometimes don't get it all.  So she has mentioned that maybe I should start sitting down to pee.  And part of me was like "Hey don't control me in that way" but at the same time, I love the idea of feeling more feminine by doing so.  It is just so easy to walk in the bathroom and whip it out, rather than having to pull my pants all the way down.  But........I think I should start.

I've always sat down to pee. Since I wear shorts for 6 months of the year. Having pee splash on shins got annoying.

Quote from: redhot1 on May 10, 2017, 02:34:30 PM
Unfortunately, I don't have the femme hair, I have body hair all over, and I have a small man belly. Also, I can't do a lot of stuff without coming out to my mom or even dad.

I also have people who I see every day of the week.

Learn how to shave or depilate the body hair.  If you ever do transition you are going to have to do that anyway, and it is a necessary first step in looking feminine.  I've been on hormones a year and I still have to shave my arms and legs regularly.

Work off the belly.  Count your calories.  You would be shocked how many calories most junk food has if you read the fine print on the package.  Exercise.  There are lots of easy fitness videos on Youtube, especially if you want to work muscles to look more feminine.  This was one of the big things I did before I started hormones.

And the easiest way to start dressing female is with panties.  I had been wearing men's bikini underwear from Jockey for years and years.  So I just quietly switched from the men's bikini underwear to the women's string bikini underwear, still from Jockey, which looks almost the same anyway.  Even before hormones, it turned out the women's underwear fit me better than the men's underwear did anyway.

Get your underwear game going first.  It is impossible to wear women's skinny jeans or shorts over a pair of men's boxers or briefs, so start with the underwear.  Then if that works, move on to jeans, and try to fit some women's T shirts into the mix.