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Started by Dee Marshall, January 25, 2016, 08:16:03 AM

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Dena

Quote from: FreyasRedemption on June 09, 2017, 03:28:21 PM
My computer seems to be dying. It makes a lot more noise than it used to as its insides do stuff, and it also heats up a lot more than before, mostly for no particular reason. Why can't they just make machines that last? And before you offer up your explanation regarding capitalism and supply and demand and whatnot....making people buy new devices every five or so years because they're made not to last is not sustainable, and thus wrong. The general shape of the world's environment and sustained availability of resources should always go before short-term financial gain. The fact that people just can't get that through their thick heads bothers me even more than my computer's slow descent to nonfunctionality.
If it's desktop, crack the case open and blow the dust bunnies out. I run my systems hard and I have to do it at least once a year. I have had dust bunnies get in the power supply fan causing a whine that drove me up the wall until I figured out where they hid the power supply. My G5 ran almost 10 years before the software became so old it no longer supported the new security protocols however it's still in place and runs fine for porting stuff to the new system.
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Laurie

Quote from: FreyasRedemption on June 09, 2017, 03:28:21 PM
My computer seems to be dying. It makes a lot more noise than it used to as its insides do stuff, and it also heats up a lot more than before, mostly for no particular reason. Why can't they just make machines that last? And before you offer up your explanation regarding capitalism and supply and demand and whatnot....making people buy new devices every five or so years because they're made not to last is not sustainable, and thus wrong. The general shape of the world's environment and sustained availability of resources should always go before short-term financial gain. The fact that people just can't get that through their thick heads bothers me even more than my computer's slow descent to nonfunctionality.

It never ceases to amaze me how many new computers are purchased because the owner doesn't  take care of simple maintenance or have someone with a little technical ability take a look at it.. The noise is likely as someone has already suggested just a fan needing to be replaced because of worn bearings. The running hot is also like as previously just  due to you never cleaning dust out of the computer.. Computers have airways that get clogged  so air does not flow well, your processor has a fan and a heat sink that gets clogged with dust that can overheat the cpu and shut off the computer. Replacing a fan is simple and cleaning a computer with a can of compressed air is even simpler.
  Another common reason for replacing a computer is that it is running slow. Why? The user have let all kind of unwanted garbage invade the computer software by their unsafe browsing habits. The quick remedy is the restore the computer to the way it was when it was bought. Thia is usually a simple process also.
  In the first problem it is normal wear and tear from usage. In the last two the owner is at fault. No need to bring planned obsolescence or marketing into the discussion. Computer will run forever if taken care of properly.

Laurie
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FreyasRedemption

Thank you. I'm getting onto doing the easy part with clearing the dust out right now, and if that doesn't help with matters, I'll seek out somebody with technical know-how to get the fan replaced.

Also, Laurie, the main reason I'm here complaining about that in the first place is because this whole thing REMINDED me of the unsustainable resource consumption perpetrated by capitalist society. If my post implied it was the sole fault of said economic problems, then I clearly was expressing my thoughts the wrong way. As it often happens when I write these things in the spur of the moment and don't feel like rewriting and thinking every word through for an hour (which is how I usually treat everything I'm about to post). And bringing my distaste for all that up was the original intent of my post, instead of asking for technical advice (which, admittedly, I sorely needed). I didn't expect to get any of that (in fact, I wasn't even expecting a response let alone three of them), since I was merely venting.
There is a better tomorrow.
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Artesia

My boss called me aside the other day:  I had been showing pictures of my trip to Colorado to co-workers, and staff that I had previously told about my transition.  One of them complained to her about seeing the picture of me in a skirt and makeup.  She told me that she had to at least ask that I not display my transition so readily, but that she was personally fine with it, but some of the staff aren't as comfortable with it.  She told me to just be careful who I show the pictures to.  I was disappointed that one my co-workers was not as open to it as they seemed when I came out to them.
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Thessa

Yesterday I hurt my back (again), it was better in the morning but it's killing me right now.

We want to go camping at the ocean from Wednesday till Sunday, but I don't know if I can do that.

My daughter and I are looking forward to this short vacation since a while and I'm sad that I might ruin it.

Don't know if I can drive seven hours, erect the tent, sleep on the camping mattress....

Damn it [emoji20]

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KathyLauren

I had to get blood drawn today for my six-month checkup.  It was the first time presenting as Kathy at the lab, and my identification is still in my old name.  So I had to put up with being dead-named at every step.  I went along with it ("Yes, officially, that's my name.") in order to get the paperwork done and get my results sent off to the doctor, but it was really irksome.

The sooner that name change certificate gets here, the better.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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maksim

I reread a thread on that I responded to a couple days ago.
I honestly couldn't believe the level of misunderstanding and the willingness to bash others for things beyond their control. Isn't that what we deal with a lot of the time? I hate that tolerance and understanding suddenly means nothing when it's "inconvenient."


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maksim

In addition to my previous grievance as well as my mood swings from shark week, I found out that there were serious protests in St. Petersburg. I'm glad people are taking a stand against the government's corruption, but it's not safe. People are getting arrested and beaten by police, things got violent.
In Moscow it was a bit surreal because the protests took place amongst a historical fair so there were costumed people from different ages in Russian history hanging out around there, some were active in the protests and others just wanted to go about their business.
Luckily my friends in St. Petersburg are all okay, a couple of them attended the protests but nothing bad happened to them personally, thank god.
It just sucks that these protests have to happen at all, and the Russian people have to face consequences for standing up for what they believe in.


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V M

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Elis

Went to a trans group meeting last night and got on really well with one of the people there. I should have said to them you can add me on fb if you like. But I kept thinking how I find it really hard to read people and am never sure if someone is actually interested in me or just faking it. Oh well; here's hoping they go to the next meeting in 2 weeks.

And I missed college today. I just feel really tired lately and simply didn't feel up to it. So now I feel like an a - hole for not going as the teacher is really nice and supportive.

Also went to the GP today to get a referral to see a specialist to diagnose possible autism. The GP said he'd write a letter to the nearest place after I suggested it but I hate how he said autistic people tend to not be very self aware; which is a huge generalisation. I'm sure there are many autistic people who aren't completely stuck in their own world's and are fully aware how their brains acts differently from other people's. Also received a letter from the gender clinic at the doctor's saying my blood test results need to be redone as my T levels are too high. I hate getting my blood tested and I only did the test 2 months ago  >:(. Also the GP asked me which way am I transitioning (er why would I be on testogel if I wasn't ftm!!?) and if that meant I had grown up female. Also why I was referred to the gender clinic and how I was changing myself. And to top it all off I had to tell him he had to send the blood test results to the gender clinic; which should have been obvious. I get this us the first time I've seen him, I get that GPs don't receive training about being transgender, I get he's older and out of touch; but my god can you at least try to not look at me like I'm a freak!!!
They/them pronouns preferred.



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KathyLauren

My legal name change is held up in bureaucratic limbo.  They want me to provide a document that does not exist.  I have calls in to the provincial ombudsman and to my MLA to see if they can help.  Without the name change, I will be dead-named and misgendered forever.  Grrrrr!!!
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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FTMDiaries

I have a sneaking suspicion, which has been building for a little while now, that my job is in jeopardy.

All of the Directors of the business have been acting strangely towards me, and I'm being excluded from projects that are my sole responsibility. Then yesterday there was a mysterious phone call from our HR consultant (who advises them on all their hirings & firings) - which is very strange considering they're not hiring anyone at the moment - and the person who took that call has been out of the office for most of the day, possibly in a meeting with said consultant. I asked to see my Line Manager today to discuss my concerns with him, and he's avoiding me like the plague.... which is his MO when he doesn't want to get involved in conversations that might implicate him.

Something is definitely afoot.





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ainsley

Quote from: FTMDiaries on June 16, 2017, 10:41:18 AM
I have a sneaking suspicion, which has been building for a little while now, that my job is in jeopardy.

All of the Directors of the business have been acting strangely towards me, and I'm being excluded from projects that are my sole responsibility. Then yesterday there was a mysterious phone call from our HR consultant (who advises them on all their hirings & firings) - which is very strange considering they're not hiring anyone at the moment - and the person who took that call has been out of the office for most of the day, possibly in a meeting with said consultant. I asked to see my Line Manager today to discuss my concerns with him, and he's avoiding me like the plague.... which is his MO when he doesn't want to get involved in conversations that might implicate him.

Something is definitely afoot.

Ruh Roh, Shaggy!  That does not sound good.  Hopefully you are just being as paranoid as I would be and it is really nothing involving you.
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Artesia

Quote from: FTMDiaries on June 16, 2017, 10:41:18 AM
I have a sneaking suspicion, which has been building for a little while now, that my job is in jeopardy.

All of the Directors of the business have been acting strangely towards me, and I'm being excluded from projects that are my sole responsibility. Then yesterday there was a mysterious phone call from our HR consultant (who advises them on all their hirings & firings) - which is very strange considering they're not hiring anyone at the moment - and the person who took that call has been out of the office for most of the day, possibly in a meeting with said consultant. I asked to see my Line Manager today to discuss my concerns with him, and he's avoiding me like the plague.... which is his MO when he doesn't want to get involved in conversations that might implicate him.

Something is definitely afoot.

Are you coming up on an anniversary of employment?  How long have you been there?  Could it be your turn for a promotion?  Did anything spectacular happen with one of your accounts?  A milestone birthday, maybe?
All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines

September 13, 2016 HRT start date
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Dena

Quote from: FTMDiaries on June 16, 2017, 10:41:18 AM
I have a sneaking suspicion, which has been building for a little while now, that my job is in jeopardy.

All of the Directors of the business have been acting strangely towards me, and I'm being excluded from projects that are my sole responsibility. Then yesterday there was a mysterious phone call from our HR consultant (who advises them on all their hirings & firings) - which is very strange considering they're not hiring anyone at the moment - and the person who took that call has been out of the office for most of the day, possibly in a meeting with said consultant. I asked to see my Line Manager today to discuss my concerns with him, and he's avoiding me like the plague.... which is his MO when he doesn't want to get involved in conversations that might implicate him.

Something is definitely afoot.
I seem to remember something about an issue with a co worker a while ago. It's possible that some miss information was planted with HR and there is a conversation taking place behind your back about this. If my memory is correct, you may need to see HR and have a discussion with them.
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Michelle_P

My divorce will be final on Wednesday.

I'll be single and living on my own for the first time in my life.  That's odd enough, but... 

I'm a woman.  I'm a lesbian, blue jean femme.  I am trans.

With that combination I'll be single and living on my own for the rest of my life.  It's got me a bit down today.  I've got therapy scheduled next week.
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Thessa

Got dead named and miss-gendered a few times during dinner and I hate it that I have so much troubles with my voice.

And today is the last evening before going back home. No more snorkeling in the ocean for quit some time...
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HannahHindle

I fell into a barrel at work today...yeah.

I work as an actor in a scare attraction and one role is where you sit in a barrel and play a talking severed head. As I was getting in a slipped and scraped my leg. Ouch.
- Hannah
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maksim



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MissKairi

a little silly but in my dreams I was really angry so I woke up angry and hating everyone.
actually cried a little at how silly this os
Let's see where this journey takes me.
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