So I went down to NC, had court. It was very heartbreaking to show up to court and see that my mother has officially made the final move that I will no longer be speaking to them ever again. My mother showed up to help my sons mother try to remove my visitation from me based on lies and complete bs. My sons mother and I could not come to any agreements, court lasted almost 3 hours ugh. Luckily I had my wife by my side and in my corner. My lawyer worked magic. Luckily, the judge threw out everything my sons mother tried to claim, the forged letter my mother wrote trying to say I wrote it and was talking about my life is over and putting a gun to my head. Thank god. So I ended up getting my 3 weeks of visitation with my son. I get him tomorrow (Sunday) for the normal length I always get him my parents end up getting a day of 8-8 with him and another 12-8 with him, but they don't get any overnights thankfully. I also don't have to painfully drive down to get him or being him back like I normally would have to, since my mom was planning on the judge giving her my visitation so she has to do it now, lol so kinda good and less stressful for me. I am so happy that I put my faith in God and he came through. My lawyer worked magic with being paid up front and is working with me payment wise. All in all it was a great turn out, despite driving 10 hrs, sleeping for 4, heading to court 2 hrs away, spending 3 hours in court, and driving 2 hrs back to wife's friends house. I'm back in NJ finally as of last night I can't be more happier so glad everything worked out the way it should have hehehehe

Fantastic.  Congratulations.  Sorry you had to do all that.  But you now know where everyone stands. 

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Wow, such an ordeal!  Glad to hear that things worked out in your favor across the board.  It's really beyond me how one's mother can be one's worst enemy, but I've seen it, and felt it.  Much love to you and your son. 

Erin

So glad things moved the right direction Vicky!!! 😀!!!!!

Congratulations glad to hear it

Their behavior is so ugly and evil. Thankfully the judge threw out all those ludicrous allegations and did what's right for your son. The truth will always come out and we are so blessed that we were able to afford a lawyer to help us through the process and that God provided justice where it was so desperately needed.

Onto making memories with the little!

So I've been enjoying the last week with my son up here with me after everything that went on but when it came to Saturday ->-bleeped-<- got worst. I had to exhange my son with my family as ordered by the Jusge from NC for their day of seeing their grandson from 8am to 8pm. Drop off went smooth and no issues. It was the pick up again at 8pm that led to problems. The cops said they needed to speak to me, luckily they all know me and are very cool with me. They said apparently my since had bruises on his legs so my mother took pics and sent to my sons mother who in turn called the police so Dyfus is now involved. Mikey has been playing with his step siblings and to the park for hours on end. He's a child and they get bruises. I've never ever laid a hand on him let alone yell at him. This is all very upsetting when I've done nothing but try to enjoy my time with my son yet my mother continues to spew this bs. Yeah I'm upset since I have to go thru this, but I can get over it and I have. But however I don't and will not stand for anyone to hurt my son. He doesn't deserve this I know nothing bad will come of this since I don't ever lay a hand on poor little man, but still I just am so done and my parents are now dead to me

OMG Vicky, I'm so sorry to hear you're dealing with all of this.  It breaks my heart to hear about spouses (and in your case other family members) who will use children as leverage to inflict pain on others. My whole body aches to hear that your parents have behaved in this way and I believe you've made the right decision for you to cut them out of your life as much as possible.  Sadly it sounds like you'll never be able to isolate from them completely but I hope you can find a situation that works enough for you to be able to continue caring for the children you so clearly love and yourself. 

Yeah I know but luckily I have my wife whose been right by my side through it all. She knows her stuff and of course nothing came of it. Case was closed because I don't abuse my son. He's my world