Well I have always been attracted to females all my life. I have fooled around with some guys and enjoyed it but I was never physically attracted to males I was attracted to 2 thing one attitude and the other well you get the picture. I recently the last 3 months have been starting to have attractions to males which is totally unlike me it is not bad just different I have had some guys that basically wanted to be my sugar daddy I sort of wish I took them up on their offer  lol. I am still attacked to females but males pop up on my radar now even my work partner notices me checking out both women and men now and want to be total taken by them. My question  is can sexual attraction  change

I don't know if it actually changes. I've only ever been attracted to guys. Before and after HRT. Is it maybe possible that you have always been BI but kept it repressed?  Maybe now that your transitioning you express it?

After a lifetime of 50 years plus of relationships with women ... My attraction to them faded away a little ways into transition... I am now married to the greatest man in the world!!!

Onward we go!!!!

Ashley

I have only been attracted to men, because I'm strongly attracted to masculinity (whether cis or trans men).   I will say I had never ever thought about women, but right after I started HRT several years ago, I became what I would say is vagina-curious lol. I am not attracted to women so I would never act on it other than with a preop trans guy.   But I think with transitioning and HRT you're largely changing your life and mind so I think it's ok to allow yourself to be open to changes mentally.  You can't help what you're attracted to! enjoy life

In the past, I had always been attracted to females.  Before I admitted I was trans, I always thought of myself as a lesbian.  I was very attracted to the female body and was never attracted to men.  Men honestly turned me off.

However, recently within the last 3 weeks (4 months HRT for whatever that's worth) I am finding the male scent very arousing and find myself being attracted to a very specific male look.  I have been viewing women more as peers and I'm  not as aroused by them.

Quote from: JillianC on July 01, 2017, 09:59:45 AM
In the past, I had always been attracted to females.  Before I admitted I was trans, I always thought of myself as a lesbian.  I was very attracted to the female body and was never attracted to men.  Men honestly turned me off.

However, recently within the last 3 weeks (4 months HRT for whatever that's worth) I am finding the male scent very arousing and find myself being attracted to a very specific male look.  I have been viewing women more as peers and I'm  not as aroused by them.

After I started hrt I was a lot more aware of guy's scent. I don't like a nasty guy of course but if a guy has been working out or doing yard work I find the smell very arousing.

I was bi before HRT but my preferences favored females on that spectrum. That flip flopped after HRT. Now men are more attractive to me, physically and emotionally. That does not mean that women are unattractive but from the slider on the spectrum point of view i think you know what i mean.

Quote from: Julia1996 on July 01, 2017, 10:20:59 AM
After I started hrt I was a lot more aware of guy's scent. I don't like a nasty guy of course but if a guy has been working out or doing yard work I find the smell very arousing.

^ This totally. My boyfriend works outside most of the day and yeah that scent is so very hot.

I am attracted to masculinity, height, status. If a woman or masculine transwoman *if that exist* was at least 5'11, and she is in good status then I'll be attracted to her. By masculinity, I mean like how some lesbians are butch but still woman, then that's fine with me.

I have to be the feminine one in all my romantic relationships.

But for the most part, I prefer men and that hasn't change.

So as far a s sexual attraction, as in the appearance of a person, I'm definately toward women. But there are these what I call hard wired instincts in my head that have always been there. Aside from the physical appearance I have always had the want to be the more feminine partner. Also the basic idea of giving my body to a male partner in the female way is stimulating at some base instinctual level. I have some concept that having your male partner orgasim inside of you would be the most intense emotional experience ever. It really wouldn't matter if I orgasimed or not. Just the idea of giving my body to someone I am so emotionally tied with is desirable. I have tried to understand what makes a guy attractive to others, but for the most part I simply cannot find it. I think with accepting my own womanhood I am much more open to the idea. For the most part I just cannot experience that side of sexual attraction. 

I am just finding it different that I used to check out girls and notice their scents and stuff, and I was never attracted to guys really and now I am noticing guys almost as much as girls now. I have always been open minded but I never thought I would notice guys this much nothing wrong with it just different for me

I am starting to get attracted to guys like paul walker, channing tatum, ja Rule, john cena

So you people are basically saying once on HRT my sexual attraction might change!. Sara

Quote from: coldHeart on July 02, 2017, 06:27:07 PM
So you people are basically saying once on HRT my sexual attraction might change!. Sara

Some do but most tend to remain with their wife if their wife will have them. If you tended to be Bi before HRT, you are more likely to experience different attractions after you start HRT.

During my adolescent years I felt that my sexual preference was for women.  However, cute guys would always catch my attention too, which confused me at first as someone who was struggling with my gender identity and sexual orientation.  Over the years, as I have become more comfortable with my identity as a woman, I have found that my attraction to women was more so a desire to be like the women that I admired.  My attraction to women was usually inclined towards girls that embodied the specific feminine qualities that I saw myself possessing one day. 

Today I would say that I am still attracted to women, but I can't really see myself in a sexual relationship with another woman.  For prospective romantic partners I definitely see myself being with a man.  I would have to say that now I identify as a predominately straight woman. 

I was also only attracted to female before HRT.. and sometime during HRT i started being attracted to men. After SRS I actually began dating men, and having the right private parts, allowed me to experience the "full female"" relationship experience.

Now I am with a wonderful man..who I love to bits... and cant imagine myself with anyone else.

Quote from: coldHeart on July 02, 2017, 06:27:07 PM
So you people are basically saying once on HRT my sexual attraction might change!. Sara

YES!!!!  Before transition, the thoughts of being  with a man or sexual involved with a man would gross me out, ugh. Then going thru transition and HRT and getting all this new flattering attention from men, started to feel attracted to men, then getting SRS and having the right equipment, it felt so natural dating men as a woman, but didn't feel right before transition.
I'm now married to a man who is the best husband in the world for the last 7 years.