Transitioning turned me from constantly being one second from a meltdown to being calm, serene, peaceful, kind and patient -- and if I had a boss like that, very likely to crazy glue the "e" key on his keyboard -- or give his contact information to a list of highly aggressive insurance and timeshare salesmen I keep around for just such an occasion.
After all, girls have better ways to deal with a jerk than cocking up a fist.