a couple of months ago, i ordered a binder from gc2b. at the time, i didn't have a tape measure so i used a string and a ruler and did the best i could, then went a size up from the measurements i got. i ordered a large, and when it came, i was pretty unhappy to find that i couldn't get into it at all. due to lack of time, money, or privacy, i was not able to ship it back and order an exchange, so i was stuck with yet another binder that i couldn't wear.
some years ago, i purchased my first binder--the only other one i have ever owned--from underworks, a size M. my weight fluctuated a lot after that purchase, and i found myself unable to wear it any more.
today, i found a tape measure and tried for a more accurate reading of my body measurements. as it turned out, i wasn't far off from my initial measurements, and if everything was correct, i fall under a size M according to gc2b's sizing chart. that's a size smaller than the one i actually have.
but i still can't get into the binder--or at least, i don't think i can. when i go to try it on, it feels like i'm going to get stuck if i try to put both arms through. i know the binders are supposed to be a little stiff, but is a terrifying struggle normal? how can it feel so small if it's a size bigger than what my actual measurements call for?
so i'm kind of left wondering whether it's actually too small, or if i'm just scared of it. i remember getting stuck in my old binder once and it was not fun; i don't want that to happen again, especially now that i don't have anyone to help me wiggle out of it... but i also don't want to waste even more money going up in size if i already have the right one.