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Started by SailorMars1994, July 16, 2017, 05:57:01 PM

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SailorMars1994

https://www.google.ca/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjU4tjf8o7VAhWL4IMKHeDWCc8QqUMIKDAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.huffingtonpost.com%2Fentry%2Fduron-family-james-woods-tweet_us_5966185fe4b005b0fdc9ec87&usg=AFQjCNGwyKo-oaXzCjL-PR2eiW4Ozwt3-w

I honeslty do not understand people like him. Let the kid be a kid and be happy, this is obviously more then a phase. I tell you, some guys seem to think that any parents allowing an AMAB to be happy and not forced to masculize is a bad thing and that all boys should have ''manhood'' drilled into them.... To those guys, it happened to me and it didnt work.

Bravo to this family and child!
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Kylo

To look at it from the other side - the parents haven't given their child much privacy here. That child is going to face the cruelty of other children (and people in general) due to the fact the parents have blogged publicly on their child, and are happy to show the media the child's face and talk about the child's preferences, etc. It says in this article that Woods has said such parents are making their child "a target" [for harassment]. The internet never forgets as we know. Those words and images are going to be there even when the child has grown up and may or may not feel the same way as the parents claim he does now.

While it's none of Wood's (or anyone else's) business what somebody does with their child's upbringing, he has a point. If I were a parent, I would never sell my story to the press and publish my kid's name and face for the world to see. My child isn't a toy to be paraded around but a real person whose opinions and ideas may well change with time - as a parent it would be my role to keep them out of harm's way until they can look after themselves and choose if they want to be in the limelight. If my parents had done that with me I would be angry with them at this point because I value anonymity. I would not want the entire world to have known how I felt at the age of ten.

I've noticed a few articles floating around lately of parents who may or may not be using their trans children for the purposes of attention and possibly money for selling their story to the press. Some of them seem more blatant and some less so. But the overt ones do not have my support. If you're an adult and want to publish your story - fine. I am not in favor of plastering your child's private life all over the internet, though.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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SailorMars1994

Ya know.. i didnt look at it like that. Thanks for showing me that prospective. Still,  i doubt thats what mr.woods was trying to say. I think he was indeed trying to mock the kids idenity.
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Kylo

I don't see him directly mocking the kid's nonconforming identity in the tweet - it wasn't a tasteful comment by any means and was made at the kid's expense - but what he seems to be saying with it is parading the kid around like this will make him hate the parents in later life, possibly damage him.

I think the main thrust here is that he disagrees with the actions of the parents... not that he is transphobic or homophobic.

When you think about it... how much emphasis do we put on privacy and protection of our private information as trans people on a forum like this for instance? A lot. We know it's not safe to reveal your face etc. and doing so is a matter of knowing the risks and being prepared for them. The child is ten years old; he's not going to understand the implications and risks fully and his parents are tasked with doing that for him. But he doesn't have much privacy any more, due to his parents' decision to make all of this public. Is this something we would encourage people to do on here if they had trans or gender nonconforming kids? I doubt it. I think people on here - with our collective experience of the difficulty and harshness of the world - would tell such parents to think of the risks to their child.

I'm not entirely sure, but I think this is what Woods is getting at here.
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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