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Started by Julia1996, July 26, 2017, 08:53:16 PM
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Quote from: Julia1996 on July 26, 2017, 08:53:16 PMHi everyone. My parents told my brother and I that they were divorcing. That was no surprise at all. Actually I'm surprised they waited this long. So my mom decided she didn't want to stay in our house. She's going to get a condo, she says she wants a fresh start whatever that means. So tonight when she got home she said she found the condo she wanted and was showing me pictures that she took of it. She made the comment that the second bedroom was nice and big and that all my stuff would fit in it. My dad heard her say that and he told her I wasn't going with her. She told him that it was my decision and to mind his own business. So I told her I was staying with my dad. Then she had like a meltdown. She started saying I was supposed to go with her and that everyone was abandoning her. Then she started yelling at me saying my dad had always been my favorite and that I had always loved him more than her. Then she said a daughter was supposed to be closer with her mother. So now she's not speaking to me.I'm sorry that she got so upset but what she said was totally right. My dad is my favorite. I've never been close to my mom. But that was all her. I know she was freaked out at having an albino baby. It was very hard but I finally got my grandma to tell me that. Apparently my mom didn't even like holding me from what my grandma had told me. She said my dad was the one who mostly cared for me when he was home. I believe that because it's my dad I remember doing things for me when I was little. My mom has always been close with my brother but she has never been with me. She's also said things to me that were kind of mean. My mom is 5'10, my dad is 6'2 and my brother is 6'4. I am 5'4. My mom has said she doesn't know where I came from since I'm so small. Once she even said she wondered if she had been exposed to radiation when she was pregnant with me and just didn't know it. She also has never liked having me with her in public if she could help it. And after I had confirmed my dad's suspicion that I was trans he hugged me and told me he would do anything he could to help me. My mom said "oh god. What will our friends think?" Then a little later she said I was already albino and did I really want to add being trans to that. I do love my mom of course but I love my dad more. I can't help it. I am sorry it upsets my mom but I won't apologize for feeling that way. I don't think she cares about having me with her I think it's more like she just doesn't want to be alone. I'm sad that she's going to feel all alone but I am not going with her. Do you guys think that makes me a bad person?