All the various forms of T will generally produce the same amount of masculinization as long as you're consistent.
I've tried Testim (gel, alcohol based, sticky, weird scent), compounded cream (thicker, lotion-y, reminded me of sunscreen), weekly shots, and biweekly shots. Levels are consistently in the 700 range no matter what I do. I find injections work best for my lifestyle, and I think that above anything else should be what folks are basing their method of T delivery on.
I'm curious where you think you're experiencing peer pressure to switch to shots? Perhaps because I'm post-transition and have largely removed myself from pre and early transition spaces, I don't see this happening ever. If anything, I see lots of guys encouraging the switch to gel or pellets.