So now I've returned homs, I wanted to add a little info for others.
First, for the plane, pain meds, pads, dark colored under garments, and a good seat cushion-donut was all I really seemed to have needed. I did have a wheel chair assistance but only used it once.
Now I'm home...bed liners/pads seem to be my best friend. I have light colored everything from carpet, bedding, furniture and the constant bleeding discharge has not been my best friend, but otherwise, recovery is going well, ita a bit of a mental build up to dilate but its getting done!!!
Hope this helps others!!!