So..I'm new here.. Long story short I have come to realize that the reason I have felt so wrong and out of place my whole life is because I was meant to be a woman..
But..... I am chained up in such distressing circumstances. My entire family is opposed to the idea of transgender people, and are especially against transitioning. With all the publicity the TG community is receiving lately, it gives them ample opportunity to discuss the matter in such a demeaning fashion, which sometimes makes me utterly crawl in my skin....
They haven't the faintest idea that I am transgender, because I keep it a tightly sealed secret... For now
I know all too well that I can't keep this hidden forever, since I fully intend on transitioning.. But I am plagued endlessly with the fear of this thought..
"What will become of the relationship with my family...?"
I don't know what to do.
I'm torn in half. </3

Chin up!
My family was about the worst too when it comes to anything LGBT.
But in the end it has slow set itself right.
My dad still don't talk to me, but he will when I get home at Christmas time.
This is something where you have to put yourself first. Family and all that comes way after you.
It's unfortunate, but this process has to be very selfish in the beginning. It's all about you you for a while
Have you any chance with your mum?

Welcome to Susan's Place. When you don't know how your family will take the news, it's best to prepare for the worst. Become as independent from the family as possible before talking to them and educate yourself as much as possible. Their first reaction may not be good however you have time in your favor. They will have to think about the consequences of their actions and while they may not cheer you, they may come to accept you. This process could take a long time but what will win them over is your determination to see it through without their assistance. It's possible this may not work but always remember that you are doing this for yourself and not for your family.

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