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Prove me that you will not want to become a woman again!

Started by pheonix, August 20, 2017, 04:56:55 PM

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pheonix

Hey guys! well i already posted about my  problem here ( the doctor said that i can't be no more on T and that i will never be able to start it again cause of My health problems ) and you guys told me to see an other doctor so he may give me a lower dose of T ! and that what i did today morning! i went to see a doctor and it acctually made things worse!
he told me that we are sick and that there is nothing such a transgender thing!
he told me to prove that i'm a man ! he was like what made me a man ? he said he is a man cause god made him male and if he think to be a woman someday he will not just go and change his gender! cause people get bored in there rules and they may want to change things over and over to enjoy life differently  ! and he told me! prove me that u will not wake up someday and you will not want to become the opposite gender again ! he told me people change  ! some people wanted over 20 years to become for example a football player and someday that desire dessapeare and they wake up and they just want to be a singer or an other thing!  he also said so many straight men were married woman for long years and someday they just become gay ! cause people change! and there is a thing called god rules we cant just follow what we want we should respect what god put us here for! and he keep telling me prove me that if you fully transotioned ! that u will not wake up someday and you just want to be a woman ! and that i can't prove it and there are so many trans people that transisioned and they get bored and want to back to the old gender again!
and i told him i'm sure of who i'm and i knew i'm trans since i was 4 years old and he said it doesn't matter when or how or why! he said when he was 4 years old he want  to become a teacher and after 10 years this desire desappeared and it's the same for gender and for everything in life! people change and what change them is ideas cause once they feel bored they will feel the need to change something to enjoy life again! and that every man or a woman had this idea at last once in their lives! they think about what life would be if they were the opposite gender! but they just not applied it cause they are rules and thats the only different between you and other people ! that they know wjere to stop and where things are wrong but you dont!
sorry for my bad english guys i just wanted to share with u what that **** said , i would love to hear what you think about that cause i have a session again with him next week and i really would love to make him shut up and know how illitrate he sound!
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SailorMars1994

Urm, yea... see another Doctor. This guy sounds like a quack. His own tounge lashing actually rasies more questions about him then anything else. Like I have yet to meet anyone who thinks about being the other gender who isnt transgender already. Some may for a split second ponder like once in their life, but if it persists then that person is almost very likely to fall on the spectrum. Giving that he said ''all people think about being the other gender'' and his over use of God making people a certian way I am too think he has some deep deep deep internal questions of his own. There is no point argueing with him with facts, he is the Dr and you are the patient. He will use whatever non-sense he can spew and will not in any likely senario give you testosterone. Dont waste your time, or money.

Other points:

- No one becomes a striaght man then goes gay and leaves their families. People are shamed into hetero relationships, try to make it work, years later crash and then go on. Or they were bisexual to begin with.

- He says that people change their minds on careers and such, but I really havent. Since I was a child I always wanted to be in politics... passion hasnt changed, then again I has a wee bit of autism so when I like something I like it!

As I said, move on. Do your homework on new Dr's, and find one with a known reputation to be LGBT friendly!

AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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SailorMars1994

Derp, I read an old old post from you saying you are from Algeria. This may explain the unusural backlash from a ''professional''. Different laws, society and way of life compared to Canada or America as I assumed you to be. I dont know where you could get good help in that country :/ ... maybe try and move if you can?
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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FTMax

If you're in Algeria, I don't know what kinds of resources are available to you or if it's just a matter of finding the right doctors. Are you able to travel at all? Are there any local support groups that could point you in the direction of a better provider?
T: 12/5/2014 | Top: 4/21/2015 | Hysto: 2/6/2016 | Meta: 3/21/2017

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Dan


This is just not right and in contravention with world standards on how to treat transgender people.

You really need to see a trans friendly and knowledgeable doctor.
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Ryuichi13

See someone else.  That doctor is obviously a narrowminded religious nutjob trying to force his beliefs on you.

Ryuichi

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