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Where are you on the transgender spectrum?

Started by Debtv, November 19, 2005, 08:32:13 PM

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michelle

Emotionally I am women,  physically stuck with my male body, clothing work make believe male and home totally female inside, and dyke outside.  Life isn't simple,  I have been brought up to change what I can and accept what I have to.   So far I have to accept being a female driving a male body and being as feminine as I can without creating unnecessary hassle or physical danger for my familyand in my life.   I am a 61 year old adult child of alchololics and MtoF transgender.  I define me and not the world around me.  At one time I could only dream of wearing a bra and now it is a normal part of my life and so are skirts and panty hose and panties my normal cloths.  Where do I fit?  Where does anybody?
Be true to yourself.  The future will reveal itself in its own due time.    Find the calm at the heart of the storm.    I own my womanhood.

I am a 69-year-old transsexual school teacher grandma & lady.   Ethnically I am half Irish  and half Scandinavian.   I can be a real bitch or quite loving and caring.  I have never taken any hormones or had surgery, I am out 24/7/365.
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Maebh

Very good and relevant question.

Gender play..........CD/TV...........TS..........Pre-op TS..........Post-op TS..........Congruant man/woman
      [in the past]            [me today]

It was difficult to pinpoint a place on the scale. I had to think long and hard about it.
In the past I would have percieved myself much more to the left, but it seems that the more I learn about myself, the more I am at ease with myself, the more honest I am about myself, the more I allow my feminine side to flourish and express itself, the more I move to the right. Will I keep moving in that direction? Will I find a niche/definition where I happily and confidently belong? Who knows?
Life is a journey. On my personal voyage of self discovery, self acceptance and self expression I might visit and stop momentarily in more than one harbour on the way until I eventually reach my destination and  settle in my chosen homeport.

Life is exciting and full of surprises.   :icon_dance:
                                                         
LLL&R

Maebh

PS. Brina, holiest than thou and smug judge of the  plebeian populace ??? when will you grow-up?
The TG community is a motley  population of individuals, with different experiences, hopes, desires and challenges. At great cost to humanity, The Inquisition, Fascim and Stalinism have eventually been relegated to the dustbin/trashcan of ideologies, political alternatives and social experiments.
Unfortunatly some people never learn and still insist in trying to mould others beliefs, attitudes and action to their narrow definition of truth.   

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Valentina

Pre-opTS.............................................................>Post-opTS         
                                                                    

7 months three days until the big day..              
                                                                 

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Maddie Secutura

gender play<........................cd..tv.........................>ts.....>Post-op ts
                                                                             ^
                                                                            ME!

Anyway that's where I am.  I am pre-everything, but hopefully this summer I'll be able to laser out my beard and then get my HRT in the fall (or earlier if I can).


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Robin_p

CD<.......TV.........TS .........Pre-Op.....Post Op.......>
                              ^
                             ME 6 months on HRT
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TheBattler

Quote from: Alice on August 07, 2006, 07:43:42 PM
OK

I have just told you all I am afraid and if I had to sum it up this thread is why I am worried. This is where I think I am now.

genderplay>........................<cd/tv>....................>ts
                                                             ^

:( :( :(

Alice


PS I hope I am wrong


I guess I have move to the right since that was posted all those months ago - I am under the T now  ;).

Alice
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peggygee

Quote from: Leigh on November 20, 2005, 07:04:08 PM


gender play<........................cd..tv.........................>ts.....>Post-op ts...............woman

                                                                                                                       ^
                                                                             
                                                     

This gets my vote.

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Denise48

Two yrs on h.r.t. still see that ugly man in the mirror
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patstar

Yes I prefer this interpretation as well--with one change.

I'm not all that sure; but my best guess guess is:


gender play<................cd..tv...............>ts.....Non-op ts.....>Post-op ts............woman
                                                                    ^
                                                                   me

Although I frequently feel so "in-genuine", STUCK so much of the time in guy mode and still having my real hair short.
Well wishes to all. Patrice
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patstar

Quote from: Denise48 on April 26, 2012, 11:39:37 PM
Two yrs on h.r.t. still see that ugly man in the mirror

Yes, me as well after 4 plus years of HRT, *sigh*!
Well wishes to all. Patrice
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