Moni, it's scar tissue. It's about the size of a dime, at the bottom of the opening of the vagina. I thought it was getting better, but she's almost in tears struggling with the pain and the difficulty getting the dilators in, esp the orange. The labia spots don't have any pain, so maybe they are something different.
Rachel that is exactly what my spouse is experiencing. We have been using over the counter hydrocortisone cream but it hasn't seemed to make a difference. So, I guess we are on the right track with the Estrace then. We might try some of the dry packing too just to see if it will help. At this point we will try anything. And the lidocaine cream, great idea. I will buy some tomorrow. I think that will help.
Thanks everyone. I think we have a plan of action.