I'm not sure I follow... I just did a quick read and he changed his mind. It is correctable for the most part. Mis-diagnosed or no,it was obviously bad enough to convince his own family and the doctors, and the school faculty. I can't say one way or the other not having first hand knowledge, but making "all encompassing" statements that kids can't be expected to know about things because they're kids. I still hold tight to my convictions from when I was 8, 10, what have you... never waived. Here I am an adult of 37 years and still steadfast... by saying kids don't know and you can't trust their parents to confirm, you set things up for "gate keeping". Kids get suicidal and their rate of follow-through is far greater than adults... transition may save more than it hurts. Just a thought.